Some boys at my school are accusing me of being prude. I haven't had a boyfriend in like a year. ( I want one) Can you be prude if you don't have any chances? How do I get a boyfriend? How to Flirt? How can I convince them I'm not prude without being a slut??? Please Help!!
2007-02-04 12:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are under 16, chill out.
don't worry about hooking up until you are in college
2007-02-04 12:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't know how to flirt, you're basically a prude.
Sorry, but you need to learn how. You need to know that there isn't a corrollation between flirting (and having a boyfriend) and being a slutt. All you need to do to flirt with a guy is to look them in the eye when you talk to them, laugh at their corny jokes (not too hard, just chuckle, and them tell them that it was dumb), and maybe hit them on the arm occasionally. Don't punch them now; just a swat will let them know you're interested, and possibly interesting, as well. By the way, this is coming from a guy, so I know what turns us on.
2007-02-04 12:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by hoplite_god 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to prove to those people just because you haven't had a boyfriend yet. You must not be that old if you say that guys are teasing you in school. I was teased in junior high because no boys ever asked me out.....then in high school, those same guys who teased me ended up asking me out all through high school. You know who you are. Over time you will acquire your own skills in flirting and there will always be chances to get a boyfriend. Just don't force it!
2007-02-04 12:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need the word 'a'. Be A prude. I am not A prude. Get it?
2007-02-04 12:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY, the only way you wont be prude to these guys is if you are a friggen $lut all the time and i know you dont want that.
2007-02-04 12:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by xxx P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a facebook group I joined called 'casual celibate relationship' - its not for waiting for marriage or something, its approximately waiting till there's a significant connection.... its surprisingly cool.. only daily tips and reminders approximately what adult adult males think of how they manage sluts, and so on... Dont sleep with this guy you like till you have been out with him a gaggle of cases and you have an emotional connection.... a intercourse in basic terms connection only gets them for the night and emotional one gets them long-term.
2016-09-28 10:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by gizzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's much better for you to ignore those boys. As long as you're happy with your life, just go on living it. It's your life anyway, not theirs. Only your parents that have the right to advise or control your life, not just any random stupid guys who doesnt even know what life is.
2007-02-04 12:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by williams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN YOU DONT HAVE NETHING TO PROVE TO THOSE BOYS...JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING.....CUZ IF THEY AINT CALLIN YOU A PRUDE THEN THEY ARE CALLIN YOU A SL*T...THINK ABOUT IT WHICH ONE DO YOU PREFER.....
2007-02-04 12:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..... it;s not that bad to not be prude!!!! at least thats what my cuzin says!!
2007-02-04 12:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by g@n$t3R!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the word you say. don't say it. just do it.
2007-02-04 12:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋