Dad has custody of his 2 kids and can't have any more children. Stepmom has none of her own; mothered his from ages 18 months and 3 months. (They are 12 & 10 now) She knew when they married there would be no more and she's fine with that. She's so good to my son and grandkids. They love her more than their own mother. What can I do for her that is very, very special? P.S. She is good to me, too!
2007-02-04 11:49:17 · 9 answers · asked by DPL06351 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
WOW I think it sounds AWESOME for you to want to show her just how much you appreciate all she does for your son, grandchildren & you. I think it would be nice if you & her had some quality time alone like shopping, going to the beautiy shop to get hair & nails done. Then maybe out to lunch. At the end of your outting give her a card letting her know how you feel about her & all she does for your family. That would diffeniately let her know how much you appreciate all she does for your son, your grandchildren & you! If you'd like to include your son & grandchildren then you & your daughter in law do something special during the day and have your son & grandchildren meet you & your daughter in a nice restraunt for dinner. At the end of dinner then give her the nice card that lets her know she's very appreciated! Regardless of what you decide to do I'm sure it will mean alot to her just knowing you love her and appreciate her! I'm sure she must be very lucky & appreciates you as well!
2007-02-04 15:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the mother's ring idea, but I think the most important thing that you can do is to tell her how much everything she does is appreciated, and how much you value what she has done for your family. I know it may sound tacky, but the thing that feels the best is when someone honestly says how grateful and appreciative they are that you are there. Think about how great that would make her feel.
2007-02-04 17:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter saying all these things. This is the best thing you can do. You can't buy that! She will love hearing how good a job she thinks you are doing.
2007-02-04 15:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that is so nice to hear. You don't often hear about that.
How about a day at the spa?
A weekend away with her husband, while you watch the kids?
Even just a card expressing your gratitude to her.
2007-02-04 11:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a girls pampering day...pay for a massage and facials for the two of you.That wold be great bonding time also.
2007-02-04 14:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to babysit so they can go out, and how about a mothers ring as she is the true mom of theirs
2007-02-04 11:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by jojo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could tell her how much you appericate her, and also do something fun together like get a padacure, go to the movies and take her to dinner, just the two of you.
2007-02-04 11:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For her b'day buy her one of the mother necklaces.
2007-02-04 12:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you just told us
you and the kids do something big for mothers day for her tell her she "is there mother"
2007-02-04 20:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋