My bf and I have been in a long distance relationship for 5 months now. At first everything was going just great. Theres a night where we were talking, and he said how much he needed me, and that he really loves me. When I asked if he really meant it, he said he really does. Since we've had that conversation, our talks are really short, and we haven't spoken on the phone for like a month! He says he's been really busy, I know he has been, he sometimes works till 4 am! But my friends are telling me if he really loves me like he says he does, he would make time to talk to me....what do u guys think??
2007-02-04 11:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long were you together before you moved away? Maybe he's really busy? Maybe you're paranoid because the distance. It will do it to you. Long distance relationship are full time work.
2007-02-04 11:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by confused123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he really loved you, he'd make at least a few minutes with you, each day.
My man and I have been together for 2 months now, long distance, and he sometimes works over 12 hour days, and he makes time to say hello, and I love you.
All I had to do is speak up and tell him how important it was. Talk to him!! I hope everything works out for you!!
2007-02-04 19:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When said he need you, he mint he needed you right then and there, to hold in his arms.
I would say ask him what he mint again and let him know how you feel and maybe to visit each other a little bit more, long distance relationship are hold if you can see and hold the person from time to time.
2007-02-04 19:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you he would call....... sorry, its probably over
2007-02-04 19:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jana T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋