IT HAS BEEN ROUGH ALL WEEK. TODAY MY BO JUST WOULDN'T LET UP ON ME ABOUT THE FACT THAT I LIKE TO LOOK FOR ROCKS IN THE HILLS...HE THINKS IT IS CRAZY BUT HEY THAT IS WHAT I LIKE . ANYWAY HE KEPT TEASING AND TEASINGAND WOULDN'T LET UP. WELL....I JUST CLAMED UP CUZ I DIDN'T THINK HIS JOKING WAS FUNNY ANYMORE. AFTER THAT HE GOT ALL COLD HEARTED ON ME AND LEFT ME WONDERIN WHAT I DID WRONG. I FINALLY GOT AN ANSWER LATER...HE SAID THAT I WAS PLAYIN GAMES AND INSULTED HIM CUZ I COULDN'T TAKE HIS JOKE...SOOO LET ME GET THIS RIGHT.. ME GETTIN SICK OF GETTING PICKED ON INSULTED HIM...WHAT THE F@#&...HOW LAME IS THAT SO THIS LEAVE ME TO WONDER IS IT JUST STUPID LOVERS QWARRALS OR IS IT A DEEPER ISSUE...YOU OPINIONS ARE USEFUL
2007-02-04 11:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by wyldmntgyrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has problems.
He needs to feel in control he does this by putting what you like to do down.
You did not reply to his insults which took away his power so, he had to act like a spoiled brat and pout about it.
Dump this guy or you'll have problems
2007-02-04 11:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the two of you need to talk about what hurts your feelings. Because he is saying stuff that really hurts you. And apparently he thinks your saying mean stuff to him. This is when the two of you need to sit down and talk about joking boundaries. Its ok to tease and joke to the ohter person but not when it hurts feelings. This is probably just the two of you not knowing were the line is. So talk about it and find out. That way this won't lead into a bigger problem. You can solve it or at least get it under control now before its unrepairable.
2007-02-04 11:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different likes and dislikes so to be rude and knock something that somebody likes to do is wrong. Communication in any relationship is a key issue. You could go find a gf though and see how he likes that.
2007-02-04 11:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the deeper issue sounds more like his maturity level. He should respect you enough to let you be about the things you like to do. I think I'd get sick of his constant digs and teasing about my hobbies, too.
I'd probably move on if I were in your situation because I wouldnt want to be with someone who doesn't want to SHARE every part of myself and himself with eachother. I'd want to feel more appreciated. Get what I mean?
2007-02-04 11:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM. A joke is fine ... but you told him you didn't think it was funny and he kept badgering you. That is disrespectful. Why can't he accept what you like to do? If he loves you he wouldn't care if you collected frigging boulders. In fact even if he didn't like it he MIGHT even choose to help you because you like to do it.
DUMP HIS SORRY A*S.
2007-02-04 11:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must not care about your feelings so find you some one else he's playing that upset role
2007-02-04 11:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by rednsweet4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a hormonal rant to me................
2007-02-04 11:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by taebo20002000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋