hey everyone, I need some advice. My girlfriend and I have broken up a few times now, and we agreed to get together one more time, but she says she wanst to move slow. It's hard for me to understand b/c she used to be all over me. help plz?
2007-02-04 11:34:09 · 26 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's over, dump her and move on
2007-02-04 11:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe because it didnt work well the last couple of times, she wants to move slow to make this time around better. I think that if she wants to take it slow, then you too should take it slow. If you guys have tried to make it work for this long, then there must be "something" still good about the relationship. Taking things slow might be the best thing for you guys. You never know, this time around may be the best time around
2007-02-04 11:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't going to wait for her, you do not deserve her. Just respect her, and do not push to hard or she will not want to go out with you. Lots of people want to move faster than the other person in a relationship, but you seriously have to just respect her, dude. Because everyone has their boundaries, and if you do not push those boundaries, then she will probably be ready to move a little faster, at a better pace. You weren't actually expecting to have sex immediately when you started seeing her anyways did you? Wait for her until she's ready, be kind to her, and your relationship will seriously be so much better if she is happy with it! Seriously, you just stared dating her, so don't expect sex yet! When both of you are ready, it will be so much better. If you will not wait for her, it means you do not truly love, or even really like her that much, and do not just break her heart by being a jackass who only wants sex! If a person truly cares for and loves a person, they will wait for them til the ends of the earth. But obviously that isnt the case here, being that she just isn't quite ready to have sex at the very freaking start of your freaking relationship. So you gotta respect her boundaries, and make sure that you are not just with her becuase you want to be with her in a physical way, or else you should not be with her at all. Just freaking respect her man. Ugh
2016-05-24 07:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should be scared that you guys have broken up a few times I would be... Don't rush things because she is really afraid to rush things and end up in the same tangle. I think that you should just lay low and try to work things out with out the hurry. I mean the world isn't running away. Its either you do two things: you leave her and find someone that is moving to your speed or you cope with it and make things work. If you love her you would stay with her and try to make things work no matter how hard it gets.
Hold on and see where it goes. Just go with the flow...
2007-02-04 11:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By taking it slow it means say your at a movie; you can slip your arm around her and hold hands with her and maybe at the end of the night kiss her on the cheek or the lips ( but no tongue) and when you say all over you that will happen in about 2 months or so, so if you still want that to happen you have to wait
2007-02-04 11:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is kinda confusing. I'm thinking maybe she wants to move slow and not have sex, but still wants to be all over you. I know it doesnt make sense, but in the long run it will.
2007-02-04 11:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just wanting to go slow cuz she doesnt want everything to move so fast again......so just do what she says i guess and take it slower that you normally used to....she might be trying to be a little more careful or maybe she just wants to try something different.....idk...goodluck tho=)
2007-02-04 11:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Bethyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she has been thinking about it and wants a relationship that is deep at a more than physical level. Perhaps she begins to suspect that is all there is between you. So.... GO SLOW! -- if you care.
2007-02-04 11:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by TheseUnitedStates 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women should always be treated as Fine Porcelain. She's changed. And you haven't. Take her advice. Or take it on the road. Simple!
2007-02-04 11:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probablly loves//likes you alot.
Maybe she thought thats what went wrong before and is just trying to do things different so she wont get hurt again.
2007-02-04 11:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be that's the reason because you've broke many times before, Why don't you try in her way this time? I think she's right.
2007-02-04 11:37:47 · answer #11 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋