Girls, do you get jealous over your guy's female friends? Or does this only usually happen when you sense there could be something between them?
2007-02-04 11:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the guy I'm with... If I'm worried that he'll cheat, it's not necessarily jealousy I'm feeling as just waryness or concern that they aren't just being friends... But if I had a guy that I knew wouldn't ever cheat, that he was really into me and stuff, and I knew how he was with this female friend of his, I think it would be ok, as long as he wasn't hanging out with her more than me...
2007-02-04 11:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by yogastar02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there isn't anything between your guy & his female friends then there isn't a problem so no jealousy. I only get jealous when I feel there is something going on.
2007-02-04 19:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I used to ONLY have lots of guy friends, and my best friend was a guy, and I didn't care really whether they had a girlfriend or not because they were my friend first, and if they were jealous that was their own problem. Most of my guy friends had started off as either guys I had hooked up with, flirted with, or sometimes we just clicked as really good friends with some underlying attraction, but it always ended in nothing more than just being friends and not wanting anything more than that...we always continued being friends, and No, not friends with priviledges. The girls they met and were with didn't understand that, and were usually threatened and uncomfortable about the whole situation. Well, my best guy friend ended up being in a really serious relationship, and the girl hated me. We couldn't party, hang out anymore, nothing. When they finally broke up, we were able to hang out again, but something was different...he wanted more from me this time, he saw me as the perfect person to be in a relationship with....I guess we always wanted it deep down because we were perfect for eachother. I got scared, and didn't want to lose him as a friend because if we got together, and we broke up, I thought our friendship would be ruined, so I told him that I loved him too much to be with him...if that made any sense. Anyhow, the point of all of this is that I used to be the female friend of a lot of guys, and never really understood what their girl friend's deals were, and why they hated me so much, UNTIL I finally got into a serious relationship of my own. I know there are a lot of girls like I used to be out there, not caring what the girlfriends feelings are, knowing that there IS (be honest!) some underlying attraction with all my guy friends and I KNOW they felt the same way, and that there was always a possibility that they had or would consider a relationship with me. It turns out, I always was a threat to their girlfriends, and even if I was too oblivious to notice it, their girlfriends always knew what was up. I don't mean to bash on anyone, I'm just saying that I've been both...the femal friend and the serious girlfriend (now fiancee') and I finally understand where my guy friends girlfriends were coming from. From the girlfriend's perspective, we deal with enough drama and problems in our relationships to have to worry about other girls. Or, maybe we just have that underlying fear that you just may be better and more compatible for our guy than we are because you have been around through it all and are still friends, and we worry that maybe he'll one day see things that way too. I believe my best friends girlfriend knew all along that he had some kind of feelings for me, which turned out to be true. Out of respect for eachother, my fiance and I dropped all guy friends and girl friends after our relationship got serious to avoid drama that comes along with it. And, my guys friends girlfriends were probably as relieved as I was because I finally understood what the problem was. Please, I mean no offense to anyone, I am just one persons opinion and experience. I've been in your position too, so I thought seeing it from both perspectives might help. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.
2007-02-05 15:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by ac 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy that I have a thing wit has girl friends(friends that r girls) but I don't really get jelous becuz he even said that it would b to weird to like them becuz they have been friends and only friends for so long. I know that he does notlike them. If sense somthin then u might wanna talk to your guy.
2007-02-04 19:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know if Ive ever felt jealousy such as youre describing.
If my guy is trying to get with another girl, I'd know and stop it immediately. If Im married, Id be sad and pissed and try to do something about it. peace
2007-02-04 19:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah i get jealous so fricking easily.
i see someone with long hair with him and i get so pissed off.
the long hair was a problem once though..i thought he was with some girl and it was a guy...awkward.
but yeah guys get jealous of girl's guy friends just as easily.....
2007-02-04 19:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if i get the feeling that things aren't kosher.
2007-02-04 19:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
normaly only if he spends more time with her than me or if he always worried about her
2007-02-04 19:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yea i do..i get really angry.. but i guess he lieks wen i do.. cuzz he keeps talking to her..
2007-02-04 19:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by ServAnt oF God 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋