My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other now for almost two years. Last night we went to a party and she wanted to dance with me. I'm not a big "dance" person and we had recently argued in the car on the way to the party. She asked me if I'd be ok with her dancing with someone else. I said fine whatever. She went and started dancing with this other guy "pretty close to him too" He sat next to her on the other side of me and she was talking to him for awhile. We slow danced together but on the last song she asked me if she could dance with him since she promised him a dance. I said "No." She was a bit irritated. She then asked him for his number and another girl for her number as well. I think she knew the other girl from high school or maybe possibly college I'm not sure...but what i'm curious to know is....
-SHOULD I BE CONCERNED?
-is she loosing interest in me?
-she was kissing and cuddling with me while we slow danced.
-I'm very confused IS it cause i wouldn't dance w/her?
2007-02-04 10:53:18 · 20 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that she is still yours.
All she wanted was to have a little bit of fun.
Since she knew that you weren't the dance type of guy, she went to somebody else.
no, i don't think that she is loosing interest in you.
2007-02-04 10:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well us women are very hard to understand most of the time. She was trying to make you jealous!! Yes it was about the dancing, I do exactly the same thing to my boyfriend. Apart from getting the other guys number that was a little strange. I don't think that you have anything to worry about, she was just letting you know that other men are interested so lift you game. If she knows that you don't like dancing, do what my man does, he gets up and makes a complete fool out of him self so I never ask him to dance again.
2007-02-04 19:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious that she likes to dance, and dancing could be a very harmless thing, or it could mean something else. Even though you arent that in to the dancing maybe you should just put up with it and do it anyway, that way she wont need to go dance with someone else. The only reason you should be concerned is if you dont trust her. and if she has a reason for you not to trust her then chances are the relationship isnt going very far anyway.
If your worried about her losing interest in you, then maybe you should do something to surprise her, do something to learn how to dance, or maybe take a dancing class with her. Im sure she'd be very impressed with you trying to do something she likes.
2007-02-04 18:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by sandra p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be slightly concerned. If she is getting other guys phone numbers, it can't be a good sign. If I were you, I would just be honest with her, in a non accusatory way. Just say that you felt a bit uneasy when she was dancing really close with the other guy and exchanged numbers. Try not to get mad and make her get on the defensive. Tell her that you really care about her and just want to make sure you are making her happy. Maybe offer to practice dancing with her at home...could be fun ;)
2007-02-04 18:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that she still loves you.
The question is, if you enjoyed dancing, would she have danced with you or would she still have danced with the other guy? Ask her EXACTLY what you asked us. I can't tell you if she's losing interest. She sounds like one of those flirty chicks. Talk to her.
I'll be honest, I know people are always like, "Dancing with someone else is no big deal," but for me, it is a big deal. I don't like it. And I wouldn't put up with it (well, depending on the situation).
And I'll be honest, she is so damn lucky to have a boyfriend who is that concerned over the situation. My boyfriend ignored me all last night for no reason. I tossed and turned all night and barely slept. She's lucky to have someone like you.
2007-02-04 19:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend may be feeling like you didn't care enough to dance with her. She went to have fun. She went to have fun with you. When you wouldn't fulfill her by dancing with her, then she wanted to have fun with someone else. It seems a bit odd though as to how she was acting with the other guy. I would be concerned. If you really love her, and have a trusting relationship, than pull her aside and talk to her about this. Tell her exactly how you feel. It would bother me if she asked for the guy's number. Just talk to her. What would it hurt?
2007-02-04 18:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Frogger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend can't dance either he dosen't stop me from dancing with other blokes but I don't slow dance with them or dance close. If she has any respect for you she wouldn't talk to him and ignore you or take his number GET RID
2007-02-04 19:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. no big deal.
my ex boyfriend tyler would nt dance with me either only slow dances
so he let me dance with other ppl. i talked to them but woudl never slow dance with anyone but him because he was mine.
i never liked any of the other guys i just liked dancing in general. its my thing and he understood.
if she was kissing and cuddling with you your still okay.
best of luck sweetheart
2007-02-04 18:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by lil morgs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have just wanted to dance, but why would she get his number? you should talk to her about her actions. she should have more respect for you and not be so concerned about other guys.
2007-02-04 18:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the only problem in your relationship consider yourself lucky. But frankly I'll be damned a man {and yes Im married} tell me I cant do something
2007-02-04 19:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by **Damn its cold up here** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋