would it be right for me?

Question

to tell my ex that i have a bf even if i dont cuz like im still in love with my ex. He was my bestfriend in hs and we dated for 3 monthis a year and a half later after graduation.

He told me that i should go find someone cuz he doesnt want a gf or a relationship ever again. I was his first gf. He says he not looking for anyone becuz he doesnt want to.

Like i want him to think that i moved on but i also want him to try to get me back. Like i want to be the one hard to get cuz that is how he is playing right now.

He knows i still have feelings for him and stuff and we are still friends but i dont want him thinking like im never going to get over him cuz that is what i tell him all the time. But now i m at a point where i want see if he'll came after me this time. I want to see how he would react if i told him i had a bf and stuff.

Is this a good idea?

ps. i know if i told him he wouldnt go around and do the same thing cuz i know he doesnt want a gf.

oh and we broke up cuz he didnt want a gf. Im not materialistic or anything and i dont ask for things either so i was a really easy gf. We got along great no fighing or nothing. So i think he just wants to be by himself or something. i dont know whats wrong with him

Answer 1

Don't worry about that first answer, it's spam. To me, don't be fake, don't tell him anything that is not true. Some people are like him. It also may be a "phase" he's going through. My best advice for you is to not wait on him. Be his friend, but if someone else comes along, don't wait on your ex to change his mind. You can't wait around forever, you have a life also. Think about this.......best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Don't play games with other peoples hearts or heads..I try to follow this rule:

If you love someone who wants to leave;let them go.If they come back into your life then you belong together if not its not meant to be.

Don't hold onto the past; you could very well miss out on a great future.Move on and if he comes back in your life;its meant to be if not be blessed for the time you had together.

Take care hope things work out !