Is it bad to be wanting to have IT! wen ur only 16 and ur b.f is 18?? i dont feel pressured.. im sure he doesnt.. wen we talk about it... i get scared.. am i ready? how do i know i am or not???
2007-02-04 10:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should wait.It doesn't matter how old you are, it matters how mature. If you're not mature enough to deal with anything that could come after having sex, don't have sex.
2007-02-04 10:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I waited till I was 21 and I have no regrets at all, I felt that I wasn't ready earlier and if you feel that way don't do it .If your scared then your not ready.
It is so much better when your older to understand the consequences of having sex. Are you ready to deal with the fact that you may get pregnant or what happens if you catch a disease How will you explain that you your parents. But just think about a few of the things I mentiond and if you really are ready then that is your life and you have to do what makes you happy. I hope that helped you out.
2007-02-04 10:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are normal feelings. If you get scared that is a hint that you may need more time to get prepared. You will know in your heart when you are ready. Dont let lust fool you. Make sure it is the right person and that you can see being with this person forever. Remember you cant get your virginity back..so make it right the first time.
2007-02-04 10:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wanting what i think you are you should really make shure your ready. The first time can change the rest of your life. If he is using you for that one thing cause God knows a guy loves to get a virgin than that will mess up how you feel about guys the rest of your life. You don't want to be come a victim the first time you do it. Seriously think about it.
2007-02-04 10:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its normal for a 16 year old to have sexual experiences.
but if you're scared, you better wait until you know thats what you REALLY want
theres nothing worse than regret
and sex is a big step
make sure you're ready for the consequences and most of all be safe.
2007-02-04 10:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel even a little scared, then you're not ready. Don't feel pressured to do it. Hold out until you are a little more mature and you will be glad you did.
2007-02-04 10:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your own words, "wen we talk about it... i get scared.. ".
Sounds to me like your not ready yet; and it's OK to not be ready yet.
2007-02-04 10:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Feather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u know wen ur readyy...wen i was 15, i lost myn to a 19 yr old...ppl told mw i was too young, but i hav noo regrets...it was good!
2007-02-04 10:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can tell if you're ready. But be careful to think about it a lot, because once you lose your virginity you can never get it back.
2007-02-04 10:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you can trust him and that you care about him enough then I guess its ok to do it. But its all up to you, if you feel as tho you're not completely sure then you can wait a bit longer, no biggie.
2007-02-04 10:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋