My Boyfriend recently added a half naked chick as his layout for myspace. I told him that I didn't appreciate it, and that somepeople might get the wrong idea and think that it's me. It kind of made me feel bad about myself, I don't look anything like her, wish I had her bod though.
I guess my question is, did I do the right thing by telling him that he should change it?
2007-02-04 10:40:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes u did. and don't feel insecure. he shouldn't have added that. he may not have known at the time how it would make you feel, but i wouldn't let it go. nag him about it until he changes it. tell him over and over how it makes you feel, and if he doesn't, it may be time to move on. if he won't respect you, don't keep him.
2007-02-04 10:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing about telling him how it made you feel! But on the other hand! Its not fair for you to tell him to change it! Cause im guessing if you are any normal person you still check men out and dont tell him! I know you will say you dont but everyone does! Its human nature to look at that sort of think! Its all about attraction! Just cause he has it up doesnt mean he thinks any less of you! The only time i would be seriously mad is if it was like a girl from school or your best friend! But if it is a porn star or something! Money made them look like that it isnt real! You are and you should be proud of who you are if he cares and values your opinion and repsects your opinon he might change it!
2007-02-04 10:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are entitled to your own opinion. If he doesn't like it, then oh well..at least he knows where you stand. Even if you don't look anything like her, he still obviously thinks you are beautiful and probably just has the poster girl on his myspace acct to show off to his male buddies
Do you have a myspace? If so put up a pic of a hot guy and ask your bf how he likes the new layout
2007-02-04 10:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is a bad thing for you to tell him how you feel. Honesty is always the best policy. If you feel comfortable telling him your honest opinion in all situations, and he is open to hear it, your relationship will be all the better for it. It really isn't the coolest thing for him to do, sounds pretty immature. But, if I were you, I would try to get over it if he is otherwise a good boyfriend. He will eventually grow out of it if he is a good guy.
2007-02-04 10:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do exactly a google search for for each element you pick to do like "myspace cover about me" etc., pass to the whateversite that promises the code for that, reproduction it and paste it into the bio area of your profile then look heavily on the code and delete any crap you be conscious mutually with the call of the region the position you basically were given the code from. don't be fearful of tinkering with the code - if something is going incorrect basically flick again on your browser to the extent you've been at previously and examine out again til you get what you pick.
2016-10-17 05:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by gayman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yes honey you did the right thing. It was disrespectful for him to put her on there anyway. That's why I'm glad that me nor my boyfriend have myspace, too much drama. It's ridiculous. Why would he want another woman on his page besides you anyway? Doesn't make much sense.
2007-02-04 10:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he love u he will change it . i think it is a boy thing to have naked girls on there myspace but u did the right by tell him
2007-02-04 10:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by tibit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u did because he wouldn't like for to put a boy pic on your layout....u did the right thing cause if it ain't you he need to take it off
2007-02-04 10:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by **BeautiFul** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. Sometimes us guy's make the dumbest choices without regard to the ones we truly love. That's probably all it is, even if he refuses to change it. We are really just dumb animals.
2007-02-04 11:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by sirdoctorfine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YeS GuRl! iT HaPpEnEd tO mE tOo, bUt iT WaZ a PiC, NoT A LaYoUt. i ToLd HiM bOuT iT n a CoUpLe oF WeEkS LaTeR, hE ToOK iT oFf(ThAnK GoD). sO YeA, hE ShOuLd CuZ uR WiT HiM.
2007-02-04 10:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥CyNtHiA n ChInO♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋