My boyfriend seems to be really secretive and sneaky. He refuses to talk about his past (at all i mean i dont need details or anything) and has all of his ex's still in his phone and address book. He has all these girls from work talking to him on his my space web page. I am pregnant and concerned. He says I am too jealous and obsessive. Is he right?
2007-02-04 10:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by Keri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not think you are too jealous, and obsessive, You have a right to be. Since you are having his baby, you have every right. I do not think he has no respect for you, their is no way he should be doing all of that talking with all of those girls. Where is his commitment to you. You need to ask him where is his priorities? Also it is time for the two of you, to sit down and have that talk about your future together, since a baby is involved. I hope this works out in your favor!
2007-02-04 10:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you are not jealous. If he had nothing to hide, you would know everything. That should tell you something. If the tables wee turned, and this were you with the secrets and the my-space friendships of the opposite sex, and you weren't pregnant, how would he react?
2007-02-04 18:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a right to be jeliouse. If he carries all these numbers of girls and talks on the phone to other girls then yes there should be consern. I would do some seriouse investigating. He cant be true if he has all these girls in his life. I cant stand guys like this. Where there is smoke there is fire.
2007-02-04 18:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..becuz many dont see this but jealousy and obsession are only other forms of true love..i feel that if he loved you he wouldn't have those numbers of his ex's..and he should be highly concerned bout you and the oncoming baby..as a lover..your jealousy and obsession is not wrong so do not blame yourself...what he's doing isnt right...and he should show more concern about you rather his past
2007-02-04 18:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Tidus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're pregnant and going to have his kid, i think he owes you the courtesy to talk to you about his past. i don't think you're too jealous. i would wonder do. i used to wonder about girls that left messages on my ex-boyfriend's myspace page and he ended up leaving me for one of them.
2007-02-04 18:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not,he seems awfully suspicious for somebody who has"nothing 2 hide".I think you need to give him a taste of his own medicine.
2007-02-04 18:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by spongebob917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have a right to know about his past! What is he hiding? Don't let him turn the table around and make you feel too jealous or obsessive!!!!!!
2007-02-04 18:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tighty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, jealousy is natural. He either needs to tell you about these girls, or you need to find out for yourself.
2007-02-04 18:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by littlemissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve an answer. Yr carrying his child, and supposed to be his mate.
2007-02-04 18:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he owes you an explanation, especially if you guys are exclusive.
2007-02-04 18:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by Katie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋