It seems like there are no guys out there who don't drink, smoke, or cuss every 5 words they say. I want to find a guy who doesn't act like this. Where can i find him?
2007-02-04 10:11:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately there is no magic place to find someone who doesn't do these things and who has their life together. you just have to look hard and never give up. eventually you will find someone who is right for you. it seems like more and more as days go by that there are people out there that cannot finish a sentence without saying vulgarities, racial slurs or anything else duragatory. my view on this that it doesn't take a smart person to sling around these kinds of words, it just shows just how ignorant that person is. however, it does take a smart person to realize that saying those things does not make you cool or hip or anything of that nature. trust me, they are out there. you just have to have faith and hope. remember, good things come to those who wait and i feel that good things are going to come your way if you just keep your positive attitude, outlook and keep your spirits up. hang in there. things will change soon. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-04 10:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, know what you are talking about...I've been divorced 17 years and still am young enough to want to start a new family, but, have the same problem..just don't be willing to settle for just anyone to have someone in your life..have fun, and if they arn't right leave them alone and move on...believe me, one day, the right one will come along....maybe church, but, alot of times they are hypocrites, my dad was a minister...or a gym or something like that...they say, when you are least expected one will fall right in your lap, or they were right under your nose the entire time...I've been engaged twice since my divorce, but, found out things that made them not right..I always go with my gut feeling and it is usually right...so just hang tight and there has to be one out there for you and me...we just havn't found them yet, but, will..I know..I'm not giving up..but, also not looking anymore...and now that I'm not looking they are coming after me, but, like you said, not the ones decent enough to get into a serious relationship, and why waste your time...but, it will happen..I promise...just be patient
2007-02-04 18:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you live in the wrong area. There are still some good ones out there. Just because someone goes to church does make them decent. I know a lot of men that go to church that are not good men. Try one of the singles sites. That way you can pick what you like. It can't hurt.
2007-02-04 18:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish girls really thought like this... because only then would good guys like me be the one who always gets the girl, and bad guys would be sitting home on Saturday night. The reality is you probably are attracted to the bad guys, all girls are. And a guy like me, who would treat a woman right, and respect and love her, goes home alone every freaking night of the week!
2007-02-04 18:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem they seem to have vises that we won't except . Keep looking an go by what you see and not what they say, People say I'm to picky heck if i don't like something i don't like it ,can't overlook it i know it will drive me Bonkers. I guess you need to ask more question of interesting people, Since you know what you don't like <
2007-02-04 18:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are, the sad part is there's no certain way or place to find them.
it would help if people were honest on the internet (but that's not going to happen)
good luck they are out there.
2007-02-04 19:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church would probably be a safe place to start, however dont you think you might become a bit bored with a guy like that
2007-02-04 18:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by Steve H. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but whenever you find yours, PLEASE tell me, cause i wanna know too. I just want to believe that there are still some good men in the world...but sometimes i just don't know! :( Good Luck to you, maybe you will have better luck than i've been getting.
2007-02-04 18:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by laangel464 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I" profess to being "an even keel" Gentleman. - I often get comments saying that my technique is so much appreciated and "out of the norm."
I try to apply the wisdom that has lasted since it was originally written (in the bible)
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you..."
2007-02-04 18:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm right here but I have just been picked up by this amazing human being :)
2007-02-04 18:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋