I am turning 22 this year and I have been with my ex since I was 15. We were together off and on for a while, seen each other go through ups and downs, lets just say I thought we were gonna end up getting married. Then all of a sudden out of the blue he says "I don't want to be with you anymore, I've been done for a while." I found it a little odd and I was crushed, only to find out the next day that he is seeing a 17 year old (hes 22) and he told her "Ive never felt this way about anyone, i love you, your the reason i wake up, blah blah."...whats worse is that he told her that he did have a past relationship but it was only "physical" and that he has never felt this way about anyone before.......so you can pretty much imagine my pain...anyway long story short he hurt me badly and his new gf is going off to college 5 hours away from him in the fall......does karma exist...its not fair that Im feeling like this and he is completely content and in love. =(
2007-02-04 10:08:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let this bother you....think of it this way: at least you found out now, and not later when you were married with him. He may eventually want you back, but that would be a bad idea on your part...because if he hurt you once, then he'll only hurt you again. Forget about him and find someone new who will treat you like a queen. As far as Karma......well I really don't know anything about karma, but I can tell you a verse from Scripture in the Bible. In Proverbs, there is a verse that relates to something like your situation. It goes something like this, "if you roll a stone on someone, it'll roll back over you". Of course this is paraphrased, so I can't exactly remember the exact wording or the chapter or number of the verse. "Revenge is mine, says the Lord", which is another one. So let him go on his merry way, and you concentrate on getting over him and living your own life. I wish you only the best of luck.
2007-02-04 10:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Nazia,
Your ex is a jerk. Do you know what happens to jerks? They get their hearts broken by other jerks. Don't let this jerk get you down. Don't spend any more time thinking about him. I know its hard and it hurts, but trust me, MUCH better things (and people!) are waiting for you and MUCH worse things are waiting for him. Your the best thing he has ever had and he lost you. Its his loss. And honey, as my boyfriend always says, "actions speak louder than words". He can tell her his playa words all day long but at the end of the day I'm sure he doesn't even mean them. Its good freckle-stein is moving 5 hours away. Shes 17 what does she know about life? I'm 100% positive she will go off to college and find many other guys that will suit her fancy. Honey karma is a bit** and it will bite him in the a**. Trust me, I've never been wrong before. :) In the mean time, have fun, live life, take your hot self out and party! When Marylin Manson breaks his puney heart (wait what heart?) and he sees that you don't need him and are happy with out him, he'll be running after you. Don't wait for him and closure, let him cry over you.
xoxo
Chino's girl
2007-02-04 15:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by sweetti825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is the act that you do. It is up to you and is up to your past Karma that guides you do something. If you want to steal go and steal. It doesn't matter if you are caught or not. But definitely you are caought by law of Karma. It is the Universe that records your Karma. Each and every person do have their own record maintained by Universe and stored in a safe file placed in infinity. That is well secure and never get destroyed or modified. If you are stealing and not caught you enjoy the baunty which not yours. A day shall come (may be in the present life or may be in next life) your property shall be taken away by some other person or you may loose it in any of the natural calamity. If you are stealing and caught then you shall get bad treatment from the public and may be finally by a punishment from your Govt. Then you did a bad Karma and you get the punishment. That is you have neutralised a bad work. So you future shall not be affected by it. So what is Karma ? Karma is an act that we do. If you do good Karma you shall be rewarded. If you do a bad Karma you shall be punished. Never worry you shall be. Now it is up to you what you want to do do it.
2016-05-24 06:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in karma. I dated this guy for 2 years I am 20 he is 23 and well I found out that after we broke up he cheated on me 3 times I never knew. so I just recently found out he is dating a 18 year old girl and got her pregnant. I like to think that is his karma coming back. Good Luck
2007-02-04 10:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will Karma get him? Only if your name is Karma.
This guy is a player, he played you and now he is playing someone else. He isn't worth the cost of the dynamite needed to blow him up. Add this experience to your personal baggage and move on. Find someone interested in having a relationship, not some bum who only wants to play you or perhaps more accurately play with you.
Sorry it fell apart, it sounds like you really cared for the guy. Just do me, a guy, a favor. Don't paint all of us with the same brush. There are actually some good men in this world, just as there are bad women.
2007-02-04 10:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think Karma gets everyone some time in their lives but it seems like (from what I read) your following up in their personal business (not meaning to offend you). I mean u knew when his gf is leaving for college and some things he told her. Just leave the situation alone. The hurt will stop. You will find someone better. Everything will come back to him.
2007-02-04 10:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the jerk that he is will be the karma. over time acts like this build up a bad rep and you get whats coming to you even if it is the simple pain of true lonliness.
2007-02-04 10:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by gorg515 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe in Karma but since my husband ran off with my sister and lived happily ever after, I have my doubts now.
2007-02-04 10:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day it will come and bite him in the butt, for all the wrong he has done to you. just remember that there are plenty of other guys out there that won't treat you like that. i'm kind of in the same situation you are in right now, except the physical thing. my boyfriend broke up w/me and was with another girl the next day. he says that he's finally found what he's been looking for and stuff like that. it really stinks, i know.
2007-02-04 10:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Karma exists....what goes around comes around!
2007-02-04 18:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋