Girls, what the nice way to get your attention in night clubs, or the literal words to bring my kindness?

Question

I been in the club yesterday and i noticed really weird thing , where all number of guys were exceeding chix and girls actually intended to stick with each other ( i mean most of them) dancing , even touching each other . They definetly dont seem like lesbians at all , but i was wondering whether it means they got fed up with guys . iam new in this area of ESSEX ,UK and iam black ,however when i approached some of them i got no attention . I refered that to different race , but then i realised that among white guys as well . Apparently , everyone was desperate chatting to one and that was really discusted that everyone hanging around and i was trying to understand how those girls thinking ...is it means they dont like guys at that time? ...is it having something outstanding to turn them on ? ....its defiently wasn't racist ....

Answer 1

okay, usually when a group of girls go out for a night together, its usually to get away from their guys, and just have a girls night out. girls are also totally different than guys. we can do things like, touch eachother with out being a lesbian, we just know what eachother wants. and im sure the girls didnt have anything against you or anythin when you approached them, but there could be plenty of reasons why they didnt want to further it.

but to get our attention, girls love when guys try to make eye contact, or just give them a quick smile, and just give it a little while before approaching them.

i hope i was of some help :)

Answer 2

Yeah, what do you expect from a club? Everyone just drinking and dancing? Girls from clubs never get attention from me cause I hate clubs and 98% of the girls in clubs are immature sluts anyway either for a piece of meat or robbing you of your own drinks by asking if you can get them some. If you are a girl, expect to get attention regardless. There is always someone there that is much more wasted than others and they would go with just about anyone just as long as they think they can get you.

Answer 3

Nah not race, not on my part anyway. I find that initially make eye contact MORE THAN ONCE, smile but not cheesy!. Usually if the girl likes the look of you she will either make an excuse to stand near you or walk by you. I'm not forward or pushy but am not old fashioned either. I tend to wait untill the guy goes to the bar then go get a drink by standing next to him. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS EYE CONTACT. If you get it, its an invitation to talk, nothing else at that time just talk. a decision is usually made in that first minute. A hello and a nice compliment works here but remember no cheddar!

Answer 4

When girls go out, they don't neccessarily go out to pull someone, have a fumble around, maybe s quickie in an alleyway and then go home (unlike men) Girls are just having some fun. Maybe all they wanna do is have a laugh with their friends, whereas men put their penises first

Answer 5

I believe they are having a night out with girls where it's not about guys. Don't take offense.

Answer 6

lol I noticed the same thing all the way in Cali. and I am NOT one of those girls. It's just that some of us girls came there to have fun and go for the ones were attracted to. Idk why they do that though maybe they're lesbians.

Answer 7

JUST UNDO THE ZIP, AND FLOP THE OLD TODGER OUT !

LOL

YOU`LL GET SOME ATTENTION THEN.

(NOT THE KIND YOU WERE HOPING FOR MAYBE )..LOL

Answer 8

it could be that they already have boyfriends, and they were just there for a girls night out.

Answer 9

girls don't go out to pull guys, they go out for fun with their friends.

Answer 10

hey i saw u today