Ok so here is the story. One of my best female friends recently told me that she is "losing me." I asked her what she meant by that but she just kept saying she was lsoing me. She then said she noticed it a little while ago that day. I was not exactly sure what she meant so i called her later on that day and asked her again. She said that it seemed like our relationship had change (i.e. our conversations, the time we spent together, they way we spoke to each other). She then asked me if I noticed a change and i said no. Evereything seemed normal enough to me. Then she said nevermind because I didn't think anything was wrong. So my question is is something seriously bothering her or am i just looking too much into this?
2007-02-04 10:03:07 · 14 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might like you more than a friend and is trying to hint towards that. Not sure but if a girl tells you that she is loosing you then usually it would mean that she thinks you aren't talking to her as much as she would like. All girls have their moments~Good Luck
2007-02-04 10:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks that you and her friendship is changing, like maybe you guys used to do a lot more, talk a lot more than you do now.And she notices it because she misses how things used to be. Did you meet any new people recently that has taken up more of your time so you see and talk to her less? Or maybe you have gotten in to a relationship that takes more of your time so you dont have as much for your friends? Either way, thats how it sounds to me. You should just try talking to her about it, it does kind of sound like something is bothering her, who knows, maybe she's getting upset because she wants you guys to be more than friends and it seems like your not as interested in her anymore
2007-02-04 18:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by sandra p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying:
Familiarity breeds contempt.
Let the relationship rest for a few days.
Just be a friend and wait for her to respond.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 18:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by wwdrhugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when everything is going great we don't notice the big picture. Take a step back and try to understand what she sees.
2007-02-04 18:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Noree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People can change and not even notice it. You should sit down face to face and have a long and detailed discussion.
2007-02-04 18:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen man their is a few thing bothering her... its not just that....by the way she is acting it sounds like there is a family matter and she is becoming very depressed...and she loves you man...one day when you are alone just give her a hug and a kiss and say "everything is OK when you are with me"
2007-02-04 18:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by brett t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she might be looking to leave you..she is looking for a reason to so she is making one up.".that you have changed". and you cant seem to pin her down to get any answers...cuz she is wrong and know it and can't really answer you...that is my best guess from a girls point of view...has she changed???
2007-02-04 18:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by wyldmntgyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask her again,but not so serious..Just remind her on that when you talking about something else..just relax
2007-02-04 18:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by --Breathtaking-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If you aren't together.. then maybe she likes you. Or maybe she see's you with other girls and she is getting jealous. Or maybe she loves you, but she thinks you don't love her.
2007-02-08 16:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jeniffer. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she just likes u more then a friend. and maybe she is jealous of something.
2007-02-04 18:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋