hey guys, i know this guy really nice sweet charmer guy we r just friends.. but he likes the chase when ever someone shows him intrest he backs away... I see him getting numbers from alot of girls & that's a good for him.. but recently he broke one of my friends heart b/c he got involved with her & said how much he cares etc & as soon as she showed the same in return he told her he is not ready he still wants to have his freedom .. poor girl, now 1 year later he is with a new girl will he be loyal do players stop playing once they have a girlfriend??
2007-02-04 09:57:57 · 30 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that honestly depends how good the girl is. you have to play your cards right. the reason why players are like that is because they get bored easily, if you can keep him interested you got yourself one hell of a boyfriend, when a player falls for a girl he completely changes. instead of chasing girls and trying to impress them he will put all that energy into his relationship, ex-players know exactly how to make a girl happy, all you gotta do is make them change, which is not easy at all.
2007-02-04 10:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Hekmat A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People only change if they are willing to change. Players usually never stop playing because they like the way it makes them feel. The older he gets the more it will be based on how many girls he can sleep with. This new girl could change him, but he has to be willing to change in order to do so. She should watch out for signs and if she thinks he is going to dump her, she should break his heart instead. Maybe a girl needs to break his heart so he knows how it feels. It sounds like he's never had his heart broken before but loves doing it to other people. I'm not saying he will change and I'm not saying he won't. The decision is totally up to him. Good luck!
2007-02-04 10:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. I don't know why people still tend to bunch guys up in one group in this day and age. You can't get results from to exploring the male speciese...ain't gonna happen! Im sorry, it just does nto work like that. However, as the definition of a player goes...then typically no..that's the whole thing...to play! When he's ready in his own time, then maybe eventually. But like I said, we reallyd on't know...it's depends on the guy as a individual.
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2007-02-04 10:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not usually. Players loves the chase. Settling down means ending the chase, so he won't settle down. A girl might win his heart by keeping him on his toes and making him chase her all the time...but that makes for an unhealthy relationship. Players usualy have nasty emotional issues and are basket cases, it's best to avoid them.
2007-02-04 10:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mmmmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a certain age they will throw in their players card and it takes a specail kind of girl to make them realize it's time for a change. But this isn't usually until they are in their 30's. One day they realize that they are tired of chasing tail and want someone to be there for them and that's when they will settle down.
2007-02-04 10:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they don't that is why they are called players. they play people. if you get involved with a person who is a player, expect to get your heart broken and cheated on because that is all players do. find someone who will love you for who you are and stand behind you and support you through thick and thin. that is what you deserve. not a player. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-04 10:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! They always have a girl one the side to make sure that if him and his girlfriend break up he won't be lonely. And pretty much the girl on the side is either a f*ck buddie or just a rebound.
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2007-02-04 10:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 10:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually not that is why their called players. But give him a chance and maybe you'll be the one that he decides to retire with.Just be careful not to let yourself get hurt cause it is a long shot.
2007-02-04 10:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer, but just don't want to admit it and need someone to reassure you.
NO, they don't stop playing once they have a girlfriend. Unfortunately, they just go on and on.
2007-02-04 10:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋