hi, im 13 and i went out with this girl for 2 years from 6-7th grade. Now in 8th were good friends and shes in alotta my classes, ive kinda moved on but my feelings keep sending me back to her. shes gotta boyfriend, so i cant interfere too much.she knows i like her but i really wanna just give her sweet little hints that let her know i really care for her. and most of all, will surprise her alot!!
PS!!! her boyfriend is a total ******** and everyone knows it except her
2007-02-04 09:56:37 · 28 answers · asked by anonyomus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your 13 chill out. theres no way yall are gonna stay together and get married. just have fun. don't worry about it
2007-02-04 09:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is sweet that you like this girl. I am 2o now but I remeber when I was in 6th grade i really liked this boy and i lked him all the way up until 8th grade we where really good friends. we hung out all the time. 1 time he told me that he had something important to tell me but was to scared to do so. so he didnt. we stayed friends and at the end of that year I got a a boyfriend. and it took my friend until 10th grade to finally tell me that he like me. I never ended up dating him because of this other guy who was an ***. So what I am trying to get at is let her know that you care. Mayb she will leave they guy she is with mayb she wont but the point is you dont know what can happen until you try. I wish my friend would have told me he would have been a great b/f. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-04 10:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm sure she does have feelings for you too, but she might be trying to move on. It's 8th grade so you have plenty of time to get her back. You probally know her better then her current boyfriend so try to suprise her with things she likes. And try to get close to her friends. They know her the best. You should also put something in her locker or write her a really creative note. But don't diss her boyfriend to her she might get angry about that. I hate it when guys do that to me , it probally makes her feel that she's not good enough, but only good enough for a s s holes.
2007-02-04 10:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by alexis h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her boyfriend is a total jerk and you know that she at least liked you in the past then keep being her friend. Treat her like a princess and start being there for her and someone she can talk to. Start getting closer and closer with her and treating her as sweet as you did when you were dating. Soon enough she will see that she would be SO much happier back with you.
2007-02-04 10:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe, that is so cute. First, id say you should be careful and watch out for the boyfriend. Um..maybe you could send her an e-mail telling her how you feel and send cute little attachments like cards and pic and poems(girls like poems). Communication is key, so as long as she is fully aware of how you feel and that you care for her....that's all a girl needs! :)
2007-02-04 10:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all do not say anythign bad abotu her boyfrined to her face even if he is an asshwole but then she wil think you are just trying to gt her for yourself and youa re lying but there isn't relaly anything you can do. just tlak to her leik you would tlak to any other girl but make her laugh and have a good time and hopefully she will relaize she likes oyus itll and then you guys can get abck together i ahd a boyfrined and then i broke up wiht him for hsi bestfriend and then my old boyfrined always tlake d to em and made me laugh and then i broke up with hsi bestfrined and i am sitll going out wiht that old boyfrined just show her you are better but make sure not to be cocky
2007-02-04 10:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her and if this guy u say is really a jurk. You got to show her somehow, how you are a lot better than he is (if you are).
But you have to consider as well, that if you still want to be friends, she might like this guy and she might want your support. And eventually she will find out he is a jurk. So DONT pressure her.
2007-02-04 10:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice would be to forget about her, stop worrying yourself with the issues at your age, your only a child you need to live like a child, trust me theres plenty of time to be thinking like an adult, with adult issues. Just mess about with your mates, worry about yourself. You will look back on these times and wonder what all the fuss was about! Goodluck. x
2007-02-04 10:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13 too and i know what you're going through. i liked this guy who dated this total ***** and i really liked him. i went out wih him for a couple months a while back and i liked him. all i did was tell him how i felt. that i really like him and cared about him and then i took him to a college football fileld(we have a college in our town) and it was covered in snow. we got there and just cuddled together and made out and then he dumped his yotch of a gf for me. all you have to do is tell her how you feel. good luck!
2007-02-04 10:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Callie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the sweetest thing you can do is tell her how you feel with a letter. Get all your feelings out on paper and mail it to her. If you love someone let her go, if she comes back to you she's yours! But don't keep being persisitant becuase her bf may be a **** to you, but to her he may be her love
2007-02-04 10:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's Day is coming up! Surprise her with a box of chocolates or a love note.
Hope I helped!
2007-02-04 10:03:10 · answer #11 · answered by bugaboobla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋