hi, im 13 and i went out with this girl for 2 years from 6-7th grade. Now in 8th were good friends and shes in alotta my classes, ive kinda moved on but my feelings keep sending me back to her. shes gotta boyfriend, so i cant interfere too much.she knows i like her but i really wanna just give her sweet little hints that let her know i really care for her. and most of all, will surprise her alot!!
2007-02-04 09:41:43 · 22 answers · asked by anonyomus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi, im 13 and i went out with this girl for 2 years from 6-7th grade. Now in 8th were good friends and shes in alotta my classes, ive kinda moved on but my feelings keep sending me back to her. shes gotta boyfriend, so i cant interfere too much.she knows i like her but i really wanna just give her sweet little hints that let her know i really care for her. and most of all, will surprise her alot!!
PS!!! her boyfriend is a total ******** and everyone knows it except her
2007-02-04 09:51:12 · update #1
Go out with another girl and make her jealous.
2007-02-08 00:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 too! Well, if her boyfriend isn't around send her little notes during ur classes. If u are her friend then whenever she's got problems help her out. But don't act too desperite. To get with her more, tell her u need help with ur homework and if u can go to her house to study. Hope this will work and I wish the best for u! =D
2007-02-04 17:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 12 so I get what goes on in middle school so I sould be able to give you some tips about this situation. (This happened to my friend except in my friend is a girl.) Well the girl you like has a boyfriend so it is going to be hard. Somethings you can do to show you care about her though is beong a good friend, helping her out, and being there when she needs you. Just don't be a stocker. (That's were my friends ex-boyfriend did wrong when she brock up with him.) Good Luck.
2007-02-04 17:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by GurlOnTheRoad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that your there for her (right now) as a good friend and listener. Good friendships turn into great relationships. Its all about the right time. She will come to you when and if she wants to. Girls like to know that there ex's still like them. Drop sweet little hint every now and then. Not around her boyfriend. That will only start stuff.
2007-02-04 17:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jomahawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little smile here and there while the boyfriend is not looking is a good one. Send her a valentines card to her house so he does not know about it. Brush past her and give her a wink but make sure the boyfriend is not around.
Good luck
2007-02-04 17:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do and say nothing against the boyfriend!!! It will push her away from you..Just be there for her when he is rude or cruel, or dumps her...whatever the case may be.
You sound quite mature for a 13 year old.....there's always the chance that the two of you are not maturity compatible just now.
But be true to who you are and who you want to be.When you do things only for another, you can lose yourself.
Good luck!
2007-02-04 19:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by cmb1061 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this, but you're moving in on another man's woman. Try putting yourself into the shoes of her new boyfriend and see how you'll feel if someone did to you what you're trying to do to him. You just have to give this one up. You're young sweetheart, you don't need any drama. You can still care for her without being with her. Anyway, good luck
2007-02-04 17:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her anonomous things. Like, every day, pick one class and always have a small chocolate or something there. Then, one day, dont put it there. After a while of getting these, she'll get a bit sad. Then, appear and say, "Looking for this?" then put it in her hand and walk away. Smile at her all class, then maybe walk her to her next class. -shrugs- it would work for me, and I'm your age.
2007-02-04 17:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your her friend right well just think how happy she is with her new boyfriend if you are her friend you r meant to be happy for her so do the best thing for her and let her do what she wants to do but if anything goes wrong you make sure that you are the first one there then she might start to like you to but just let her be happy cos am doing that at the moment and it hurts me but it is what makes your friend happy that's counts am 13 too so if i can do it you can OK mate just let her get on with it she will like you better if you do trust me am a girl xxxx lv ya xxxx :p
2007-02-04 19:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent you got a playstation, i have a 13 year old boy and i would be mortified if he was as love sick as you are, you sound like a old man that has been left on the shelf. chill out and fnd other things to do. isnt there any old people in your area that need winding up
2007-02-04 18:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by helen i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, she's got a boyfriend, so I would just keep your distance for now, unless you want to get into a fight on the playground at 3pm.
2007-02-04 17:44:51 · answer #11 · answered by Manrolls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋