I made him cry...(on accident)?

Question

We went bowling Friday. There is this guy who has liked me for 1 1/2 years... long story short, he admit he likes me at the bowling ally, I said I dont like you I like someone else, shortly before we left he started crying, I asked one of his friends why he was crying, he said because of me and that I should talk to him, I go to school tom., I feel really guilty, what should I say/do?

I'm in middle school and i did it on ACCIDENT!!

Answer 1

Tell him you are sorry to hurt his feeling but he needs to grow up.

Answer 2

Nothing wrong with being totally blunt with people that disrespect you or people that just don't get it, but it sounds as if this is just a guy who liked you and there is nothing wrong with that. In situations like this it's ok to lie a little bit or not be so blunt, you should always try to consider others feelings especially if they mean no harm to you, which it sounds he didn't. Picture in your head a guy that you had the biggests crush on and he just blurted out, hey I DON"T LIKE YOU, now doesn't that sound just mean and hurtful? I would try to talk to him and explain you didn't mean it the way it sounded, but you are involved with someone else and that you think he is a nice guy. Things like this among many other things for teens can really hurt their self-confidence and we shouldn't want to do that to anyone, it's just not nice and you should always treat people the way you want to be treated, when your older you will feel better that you did. Bottom line, I would approach this person and apologize for being so blunt, but your seeing someone else.

Answer 3

You've told him the truth, don't EVER like a guy out of pity or guilt. Be friends with him, or offer to be that, but come on, you're in middle school. he has a lifetime of meeting more girls that he'll just "like". I wouldn't worry about it too much. The best advice I've ever recieved was not to date until I was 16... thanks to my parents, so I got out of a lot of situations from guys I didn't like who liked me, I just said, "Um, I can't date until I'm 16" and they dropped me like a rotten tomato.

But do ask to become friends, who knows, that's potential to have a great guy friend. Those are hard to come by. But don't feel guilty for telling him the truth, it's better than leading him on until he loves you and telling him then that you've never liked him.

Answer 4

even as i change into little, I had merely gotten decrease back from trick-or-treating and that i peed throughout myself. the sorrowful element i change into merely outside my living house. So close ... yet all over again (this occurred two times) i change into so scared to ask the librarian the position the lavatory change into in college so I held it in. because the type change into status in line to leave, I moist myself. It change into the most embarrassing element EVER to ensue to me. i imagine it change into grade a million, so I doubt absolutely everyone yet me recollects ... many years later, i change into strolling to the mall with a chum and he or she suggested the funniest element (i will't undergo in ideas what it change into) and that i peed somewhat. My shorts had somewhat moist spot, yet i do not imagine absolutely everyone pronounced. (i am hoping).

Answer 5

You did nothing wrong. You were straightforward and honest with him and did not cause him any physical or emotional harm---so don't feel guilty, don't talk to him, don't say do---it's his problem, not yours....

Answer 6

TALK TO HIM!!! He needs you to talk to him or else his feelings will be closed up for a very, very, very long time. I know you don't want that.TALK

Answer 7

he will get over it you told himn the truth mabeor maybe not a little harsh but effective

Answer 8

just say you're sorry, but you have to admitt the fact that i don't like you

Answer 9

DAMN girl...that was MEAN...u should've teold him more honestly or with kindness.....but...NO...u just said like u didnt care...n right now hes upset b/c of u...way to go..girl...WAY TO GO...