my really good friend has this boyfriend of about 6 months. the kid is pretty nice sometimes but he is such a perv. he asks her the sickest questions and he is kinda rude sometimes. she likes him a lot and even though she knows how rude he is she still likes him. i dont really know what to say to her because i kinda think they should break up because she is way to good for him. how can i tell her with out messing up our friendship?
2007-02-04 09:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's her chioce not yours
2007-02-04 09:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything because she will only think you are being selfish and may like him. Just try to tollerate him. She must have different taste in guys, thats all. Some girls like the bad boys and others like the gentlemen. She might find out that she didnt like the bad boys after all. Its just her way of finding out about life and as a friend, you cannot teach her what she needs to learn on her own.
2007-02-04 09:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by tigerbaby99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to step back and let others make their mistake inorder to learn from it. I am sure its because you care so much for your friend and you dont want her to get hurt but you know girl when someone is in luv they become very negetive about what other ppl think so the best thing for u is just to advice her and let hre know that no matter what you are always there for her.
T.C
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2007-02-04 09:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-02 08:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to learn for herself, its not your place to tell her. Besides, he could be a really nice kid who is just a perv, that could be his weakness, something everyone has. If he is a good guy and he treats your friend right, then you should just let them be happy, if she isnt hen she wil leave on her own. Just be there for her and let them live their own lives. Good luck.
2007-02-04 09:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy oh boy have I gone through this. It isn't the best experience. What I did was I just went right up and said something to her. She didn't do anything, but now that relationship was her biggest regret. So, just say something to her. You only want what's best for your friend.
2007-02-04 09:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy treats her rudely and she still likes him, then she is a complete idiot for not dumping him. Talk to her about how foolish she looks for still being in the relationship, then see how she feels. My god whats wrong with these girls now a days sticking with guys that treat them like ****??
2007-02-04 09:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dathletez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel about the guy. but don't tell her to break up with him(if she really likes him a lot) or else there's going to be problems in your friendship with her
2007-02-04 09:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that he's a perv. and she's way too goods for him.
ask her to ask her boyfriend to stop asking those wuestions and to respect her.
2007-02-04 09:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you care about her but let her make her own mistakes she would probably resent you trying to break them up so i would just stay out of it.
2007-02-04 09:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. But make sure she know's that if she does stay with him you support their relationship even if you don't.
2007-02-04 09:10:49 · answer #11 · answered by mellosredxone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋