Just tell him the truth- honesty is the best way to go in relationships. Tell him that you don't have enough trust in the relationship to take it that much father- that's what it appears to be, that you think he'll leave you, then there's not much trust between the two. Tell him that he needs to show respect for you, for your decisions, and you've made a decision not to have it until you can trust him. If he refuses or accuses you of completely not trusting him/breaking up, maybe he's just not right for you. If he can't respect you now, will he respect you after intercourse/getting what he wants? Talk about it with him.
2007-02-04 08:51:52
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answered by natalia j 2
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No, because even if he would he's going to say he wouldn't. Tell him your just not ready. If he breaks up with you because of this he only wanted you for sex anyway and your better off without him.
2007-02-04 08:53:13
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answered by beebee 6
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Losing weight is not rocket science. Reduce your calories in, increase your calories out. If it doesnt work, see a doctor, you MAY have a medical problem (although most people dont, they simply delude themselves about how much they eat).
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answered by Anonymous
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If that is the way you feel, then absolutely say that to him! Why should you be so careful as to only say what you think he'd like to hear or not like to hear? Don't you think you matter in this situation?
Give yourself more credit. Stand up for yourself.
2007-02-04 08:50:00
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answered by gnuck gnuck 2
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Hmm.If you don't want to.Don't.If he respects you he won't push.He may just be testing you too-who knows?Besides,it only takes once to get pregnant or catch something.Now'days no one can be too careful. Be strong, but nice.You'll be glad you did.
2007-02-04 08:53:38
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answered by gotabedifferent 5
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If you think thats what he'll do then yeah, you have to be honest with him, especially in situations like this, but use tact and try not to hurt his feelings too much.
2007-02-04 08:49:19
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answered by Rusty 2
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just be honest & tell him that you are not ready. if he breaks up with you then thats all he wanted & he can get it from somebody else
2007-02-04 08:48:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Just tell him no. If he truly loves you, he'll respect your decision. If not, get out of that relationship immediately.
2007-02-04 08:49:27
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answered by Steph [♥] 4
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yeah its good to keep your feelings out in the open in a realationship at least he won't feel so rejected like you just don't like him or some thin'
2007-02-04 08:50:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Boyfriend, not husband? dont even think about it...tell him "you cant get a thing, if I dont have that ring"........good luck
2007-02-04 08:49:22
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answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5
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