I found out I was pregnant in Sept. but I ended up getting an abortion :( Of course all of that has been really sad.
My bf's ex-girlfriend just claimed that my bf got her pregnant (slightly before I came into the pic) and she had a daughter early Jan.
Well since I stopped bleeding from my abortion, late dec., ive been having the urge and want to get pregnant. I sit alot and think "what could have" if I were still pregnant and also the mere fact that my bf could have gotten someone else preg. and she has his child.
Please serious responses only, what am I go thru? is this a phase?
I am still on the patch but ive been counting when i should ovulate and have all thse crazy 'plan's in my head.
I am 23 btw.
Thanks for all responses in adavnce
2007-02-04 08:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by lovieair 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i agree with redpeach
2007-02-08 01:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very saddening to hear that you had an abortion and so quickly after that you want a child. It sounds to me like you need to love yourself before you should even be thinking about having a child. If you think this man is good enough to have a child with, why not consider marriage first? Some sort of commitment or family structure to bring a child into. You sound very needy and that fact that you have "crazy plans" in your head is quite a concern. Have you spoken to your bf about his opinion of all this? Is he ready for another child so soon? You should take his feelings into consideration as well or you are basically only looking for a sperm donor.
Take some time for you. You are so young and obviously a little immature.
Good luck!
2007-02-05 13:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by TessaB 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get a counselor. Many clinics that offer abortion have free post-abortion counseling with unbiased counselors who do not make you feel guilty about it and do not try to push their religion down your throat.
Seriously, you have a lot of issues that you need to work on, and I do not mean this in any derogatory manner. Counseling should help you.
2007-02-04 16:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by jimbell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that the only reason you want to have a child is because his ex has one from him. that is not a valid reason to have a child. have a stable relationship first.
2007-02-04 16:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
agree with tsull
2007-02-04 16:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't breed...you sound like white trash...the country needs much less of that.
2007-02-04 16:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋