As a teenage guy, I know its natural to be especially aware of attractive girls, but, well... I know it is wrong to stare at girls, because essentially that turns them into an object of sexual pleasure for me, and I do NOT want to degrade females in that way.
Are there any ways that I can deal with my lustful feelings, and view women with a more positive, humane mindset?
2007-02-04 08:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by Zindo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are visually stimulated. You need to accept this fact. That's why women dress nicely, and wear cute clothes.. to attract guys. You also need to understand your body. You are constantly producing sperm and at your age, testosterone is super high . Its almost like you can't help it.
I am not saying you can't control yourself or that poor behavior is acceptable. I mean that its partially your body that leads your thoughts this way. I commend you for even caring about this especially when we have even teenage girls objectifying themselves You are really quite evolved to be so young.
So what to do. Treat women as you want your mom and sisters treated, how you want your daughters treated when you have them. Its that simple but you cant overcome biology.
2007-02-04 08:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...It is natural brain chemistry..
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Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that
a consistent number of chemicals are present in the
brain when people testify to feeling love.
These chemicals include; Testosterone,
Oestrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine,
Serotonin, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin.
More specifically, higher levels of Testosterone
and Oestrogen are present during the lustful phase
of a relationship. Dopamine, Norepinephrine,
and Serotonin are more commonly found during
the attraction phase of a relationship.
Oxytocin, and Vasopressin seemed to be more
closely linked to long term bonding and relationships
characterized by strong attachments.
2007-02-04 08:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with staring at girls. Just dont let them know you are googling at them like a perve. Your brain is wired to look and evaluate a potential mate, dont feel bad about it! Just try to look at them in the face and enjoy their eyes and lips. A woman is a beautiful creation from God. In the Bible, God created man and he thought and saw he needed a mate because he was lonely. God made women for man. So next time you catch yourself looking at a hottie and find yourself "mentally undressing her", try to imagine what it would be like to take her to dinner and her laughing at all your bad jokes...LOL Oh! please be confident as well because chics dig that sooo much! Act like they should be happy you are talking to them...not the other way around.
2007-02-04 08:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by tigerbaby99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you're as phony as a three dollar bill! Ain't no adolescent male gonna spout that stuff on his own. Ain't nothing wrong with admiring a member of the opposite gender - where it goes wrong is when you turn it into abuse. So knock off the highfalutin' remarks; you ain't fooling nobody!
2007-02-04 08:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha You seem to have forgot God made you and saw how horny you got... so he made woman.
Now with your religious training the brain the God gave you has been given a conflict.
You decide that the homosexual pervert religious freak has convinced you that you have a problem of LUST ha ha ha
2007-02-04 08:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad I'm not a guy!
Haha well...I don't think you can do anything to change-you're a guy! Try thinking to yourself..."This girl is a HUMAN BEING." We're not all Paris Hilton clones.
2007-02-04 08:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋