I've been with my boyfriend for 8 month's and we've never gotten to be able to get together. He's my best friends cousin and i love him with all my heart and soul. He's my world but i broke up with him because he never comes around. There's always a reason behind why. It hurts so bad and all i want is to see him. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to get with him and get to see him. I broke up with him to try to push him into gear but i dont' know if it's working. Any helpful ideas?
2007-02-04 08:31:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows i broke up with him because i want to see him.
2007-02-04 08:42:30 · update #1
He doesn't care about you.
2007-02-04 08:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i hear where your comming from hun. I've been here and it HURTS so bad. I can't guarentee anything but, he's probably devestated right now. So give him a week or so and if you don't hear from him or see him then call him and tell him everything your feeling...It is a hard state but, i won't lie things may not be okay but, take the time while you've still got the change because in the end you did your best if you tryed and if you tryed its his loss and not yours cuz, the girl is always the one that gets beat down and we girls have to stick together and know were better than that and its there loss not ours...that doesn't mean it won't hurt it means if things don't work out...show a glimse of how you feel and if he ignores it don't bother with him because he's not good enough for you.
Good luck!
2007-02-04 08:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will possibly desire to have a advantageous long talk with him approximately his destiny. he's only ruining his own destiny, and you're ruining your guy or woman by having a boyfriend like that. in the adventure that your mothers and dads chanced on at which you're relationship a guy that throughout the time of no way includes college, they had chase you with an awl. If I have been you, i could get a sparkling boyfriend (one that is extra being concerned, extra considerate, smarter, and extra of a gentleman). That way, you would be satisfied, your mothers and dads would be satisfied, and your destiny would be happier. I recommend you progression on in existence and do extra impt. issues. solid success.
2016-09-28 10:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has not worked then you must move on. It is painful but if he really likes you he will begin to miss you after a while and start ringing you again asking for a second chance. Do not count on it though be happy and busy until that time.
Beware it could take months- men are like this! Good luck!
2007-02-04 08:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by jupiter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have seen him and hung out with him before considering breaking up with him (but at that time, you would have already seen him, so there would be no reason to break up with him anymore). You have done some pretty impulsive things right there! Talk to him, tell him that the only reason you broke up with him is becuase you thought you guys weren't spending enough time together, and ask him if maybe you guys could hang out sometime.
2007-02-04 08:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We often fall in love with the thought of love. Then we try to grab onto someone to be part of the dream. Maybe he's the wrong one or just not ready to be part of your dream. My advice is to let him go, look around to see if the right one might be waiting for you to notice "Him." You can't pick up the right item when your hands(or heart) are filled with something that "Doesn't" work. Let it go so you can hold the right dream when it appears.
2007-02-08 04:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there,done that.If he wanted to see you, he would have!I know it hurts.But you won't benifit from the pain.Cutting him loose was the best thing to do.Now go on with life.If he wants you he'll talk to you.
That really bites when guys do that.Try to get your mind on something else.
2007-02-04 08:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, wow. im so sorry about you loss.
but u have to take it into consideration
that if u never see him and he dosnt make
a stong effort to come out and see
u, then it probably isnt ment to be.
i know wat ur going thru. i went thru
the same exact thing && me did break up.
it hurt real bad but ur gona have at least one
big heart break at some point in ur
life. i know u probably heared this
already but u will be fine, trust me.
that day will come && u will move on.
2007-02-04 08:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tara if u love him u should try to wait i know its hard but im sure u r strong try to tell him that u love him but u want him to come around or if its not possible u go to see him if u really love him.
good luck...
2007-02-04 08:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not coming to see you , it's time to move on he must have better things to do, You deserve better!
2007-02-04 08:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by DON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no girl i never came around because i had another girl, u don't need to tell on here, what hell is with u girl
2007-02-04 08:35:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋