2007-02-04 08:31:17 · 50 answers · asked by dairygrl252001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you meet someone online, you have a fifty fifty chance they are being honest with you. You should post more information. Have you had phone calls from this guy? Does he have a webcam? If you met him online, how far away does he live? You should definitely spend a lot of time in person with this guy before marriage, no matter if you met him online or in the grocery store. Marriage should not be taken lightly, and you need to be one hundred percent sure that you are ready to committ yourself to someone for the rest of your existance on earth. If you don't want to get married this soon, tell him, and if he doesn't understand, then he won't understand all the real troubles you'll have during marriage. In my opinion, if you were completely sure about it, you wouldn't ask what everyone else thought.
2007-02-04 09:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need more information. Have you met in person? How long have you been together? How old are you? How old is he?
I just sent the last guy I met on the internet to fill my water glass. We met in July 2002, married August 2003. We were in our early 30s (and knew what we were looking for in a mate) when we met.
I also met a lot of losers on the internet over the years, so be careful!
2007-02-04 08:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met him in person yet? God, that is the first step! Like, the thing you guys should have done on the first date, or a few days after you guys had first met each other. I know you are in love, but you need to see him in person and get to know him much better for 6 MONTHS TO A YEAR before you ever even consider or say the word "marriage". Marriage is a big step, and you need to take this relationship slowly, since you met him on the internet and you need to be careful of people on the internet (not saying that he's a bad guy, but you need to be on guard anyways).
2007-02-04 08:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should meet him first it may seem like you are in love but if you never met then i don't understand how that is possible. i have a friend who met a guy on the internet and she married him and he got her pregnant and then left her after 3 months of marriage then she found out that he was a fugitive in another state and had criminal backgrounds. you need to be sure about this guy and do your homework on him before you commit to that kind of commitment. please play it safe and don't jump into anything. i would just give it some time.
2007-02-04 08:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Caution beware" This could be a Scam or Conn. People on the Internet use love and marriage proposal to conn others. This is one time love can kill you, it being so strong and powerful. If he ask for money in and shape form or fashion, drop him like a hot potato and run like hell. If and I say if this is not the case, agree to meat him in a public place for coffee, lunch or dinner. Then let nature take it's course. Good luck , I'm telling you this because I was taken on the internet after knowing the lady for 3 years. at a cost of $17,000.00 trying to get her and her mother here. Don't let love turn you into a fool as it did me.
2007-02-04 08:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet him in a public place with a friend to accompany you. Take it from there. Do not marry the guy until you have gone out with him for at least six months, a year is much better. A life is a horrible thing to mess up by jumping into the wrong bed.
Slow Down!!
2007-02-04 08:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Two Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are planning on living apart and only conducting your relationship via email, you need to move this to the next level.
A meeting, in a public place, perhaps even with someone accompanying you. I mean no disrespect, but until you meet in person, you have no way of knowing if anything he has told you is necessarily true. Internet scams abound - the police use web sites and blogs and message boards to trap all sorts of people.
Move slowly and carefully and protect yourself. If it is true love, it will stand the wait, and it will stand inspection in daylight. If not - be very, very careful.
2007-02-04 08:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be in love if you have only met on the internet. You have to meet in person and find out if you click. Tell him to slow down and try things out first. Don't jump into anything
2007-02-04 08:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by angel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you met in person ? If not, you're NOT "in love" ! Where is he ? If he's in another country, be VERY careful he's not just looking for a free ride to America ! This happens all the time. If you've been writing less than a year, I'd say give it more time. Does he call you on the phone??? Want to be smart??? Wait to you know more........
2007-02-04 08:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Vinegar Taster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK- if your at a legal age and this guy is not tooo old or just some crazy pervert. How about you try dating and see if you really like him. Internet relationship can be easy and too fake. Sometime you don't know the person that well...... Knew my
FI for 10 years and really didn't know him until we lived together.
2007-02-04 08:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋