is it you don't know what you got till its gone type of thing?
my ex wants to give it a second chance even though its his fault he messed it up. he found someone else. they only lasted 2 months but in the process he was so mean to me while they were going out. he apologized to me in front of all of my friends and it seems like things have been okay. but im just worried. i dont want to get hurt again but at the same time im willing to take the chance. you only live once.....
2007-02-04 08:30:41 · 7 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I haven't ever found a true reason why ex's always seem to be waiting for that second chance or they want you back sorta thing. And yes, I think it is that sorta "You don't know what you got till it's gone" type of thing. I think that sometimes in live people do things without thinking about the outcome and at the time they are only thinking about how they feel and what they want and they don't really stop and think about if it will hurt someone. I think that everyone desirves a "Second chance", because I mean we are only human and we make dumb mistakes and people need to learn to forgive and forget (although sometimes that can be a really hard thing to do). But it's kinda up to you on if you should give your ex a second chance or not. And well most people are afraid to give an ex a second chance because they don't want to feel the pain that they already felt again. And I believe that you should just listen to your heart and figure it all out from there. Best Luck. =)
2007-02-04 08:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid, if he dumped you for another woman what makes you think he won't do it again? The man has shown you his true colors and yet you are thinking about taking him back? You need to have your head examined. There are plenty of other guys out there and it would most likely be in your best interests to cut this joker loose and move on. If you take him back then you will end up going through the same emotional roller coaster yet again, if that is what you want then by all means go for it, but I am betting that deep down inside you probably know that taking him back would be a huge mistake. I would also be willing to be all your friends are telling you to cut this guy loose as well, if they are, take their advice. Good Luck
2007-02-04 08:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it has been like that with me also. They want what they can't have. But in most cases they get what they want and leave again. Its the lucky ones who don't have to go through that, and its also the lucky ones who give it a second chance and it works out. Good Luck to you!
2007-02-04 08:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey no one can tell you what to do, I wouldn't give an ex like that a second chance, but if you do remember to be really careful don't let your guard down too much, make him earn your trust and make it hard work for him
2007-02-04 08:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they ask for a second chance coz when they leave u he takes time to see other girls and when he comes again this means that ur the best and that he loves u and he missed u alot and thats nice.
2007-02-04 08:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try it again, but guard your heart more carefully and don't get in too deep too soon. Give it time and see what happens.
2007-02-04 08:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive got an ex that wants to have sex wit me and he wants me back since he was 12 and he hurt me do not do it it could be someting that you do not want to do ever agin.
2007-02-04 08:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by shaneahadberg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋