there was this guy who was like a really cool guy. girls used to fall for him and i never cared about him. this was all when we were in high school. in college in the last year we came to know each other and then he started givin me hints that he liked me. so i tried to brush them off but he asked me out anyways. i didnt know that he was sincere that time nut he seemed so sincere. i sort of said yes and we were hangin out a lot more. but then we didnt talk for 2 months and then i heard that he was goin out with some other girl. did all that we had cherished just all go to nothin. i mean wat shoul i hav done i didnt do anytin wrong. he just started goin with somebody else. then 2 months later its like he wants to get back together again. wat should i do
2007-02-04 08:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you spurned his advances at first and then when he asked you out, you "sort of" said yes.
I don't think you like him just by what you've stated here...and he has less to go on. He dated someone else b/c :
a) he wasn't getting a vibe from you, and/or
b) trying to get a reaction from you...and succeeded.
Decide if you want to follow this any further...and when you eventually make your mind up, actually tell him this time.
2007-02-12 05:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need the complications of always guessing if you are together or not. Tell him that you are going to move on because you can't figure him out. If he wanted a relationship with you he wouldn't of went out with someone else? but why did you not talk to him for two months and why would you still think you were together after so long. Find someone who realy cares about you you deserve better. Take care Heather
2007-02-12 14:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, girl, girl stop stressing first of all. I think that u should give him another chance. You and him deserve to find out where this could go. Who knows he just might be the man for u. Go ahead what do u have to lose.
2007-02-04 16:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by ciaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes the chase. Once he gets a girl he loses interest. When you didn't chase after him to get him back he came back around to see what was happening. I'm sure he's used to girls pining away for him. Move on honey, he's a player.
2007-02-04 16:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time....go out a couple times.
He could be a dog and you need to watch out for it. Or he may have realized that he really likes you and maybe it scared him at first...
Just take it slow and hang out for a little while...
2007-02-04 16:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously thi ni99a is still on his high school shyt an u needa tell his azz 2 grow up an dat if he keep rollin lyk dat his azz is gonna end up wif fukkin herpies or the clap an u should tell him dat ur r all grown up lyk da rugrats an if he wanna **** wif u den he needs ta do da same
2007-02-04 16:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by hellokitty4lif 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication is key in a relationship. If this guy cant be straight forward with you, then move on...
2007-02-12 15:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by *SeXyB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thought he didnt have a chance with u. i would probably give him chance but thats really up to u. i hope it goes well if u do or if u dont. good luck
2007-02-04 16:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by horsendurancelvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First start to show him that you are better, if that doesnt work start dating someone else
2007-02-04 16:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him NO, he is only insterented in one thing and one thing only. If your willing to give it to him, go for it, but he is only going to hurt you again. is that what you want?
2007-02-04 16:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋