i have a girlfriend that is not that experienced in the love department.her boyfriend of 1 yr.says she looks like a librarian.and now she says bf does not initiate sex very much anymore.she's pretty and in good shape.so she asked me for some help.i told her to change her appearance and act sexy.she said that might not work.then i told her some of my trade secrets,she was a little hesitant,so i suggested for her to go and get some books,well now i've peaked her interest a bit.so she wanted to know more.keep in mind this woman doesn't have a clue about keeping the home fires burning.then i told her i have some x-rated movies she could borrow and that we could go to victoria's secret and find some sexy clothes.but my question to you is,i previewed my x-r movies and i think she might be horrified,they are pretty raunchy and shows everything you can think of in a way that i think she might think of me as a pervert,and i am not.what would you advise me to do to enlighten her on the subject?
2007-02-04 08:00:20 · 4 answers · asked by WHAT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all your sincere answers.
2007-02-04 12:04:15 · update #1
well first of all....your friend should not have to change her appearence for him......sexy lingerie is nice and x rated movies can be helpful but if she's never seen one then i am sure she doesnt know waht to expect. i would tell her what is on then ...like a brief summary....lol i know it sounds silly but if she is as unexperienced as u say it will help with the shock when she turns on the movie.....i would just be sure that all of this it what she wants....is this stuff her style or yours??? u can force anything.....whens shes ready SHES ready....she shouldnt do it just for any guy
2007-02-04 08:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the librarian look its cute and i like cute she don't need to change her appearance and act sexy she will attract the wrong type of guys for her she just needs to be her self and she will meet a good guy for her you could be looking at the wrong type of guys for her and I'm not that experienced in the love department to and i would like to talk to her more here is my email its stevenbarnes29@gmail.com or my yahoo name its stevenbarnes2560 so if you wanna talk lets talk i been looking for a girl just like that but that could be just me
2007-02-04 16:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. tell her that this is just some things people do and not all people do these things. just give her a little heads up that it could get graphic. good luck
2007-02-04 16:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the vids. You should try to give her a personal lesson. If you know what I mean.
2007-02-04 16:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by ally_oop_64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋