so ive been trying to get out there and start making conversations with random girls but its just not working. either i get too nervous and dont go talk to them or i just say hey and thats it. i need to know how to approach girls and start conversations with them. thanks
2007-02-04 07:59:33 · 3 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Saying Hey is a great start friend! Acknowledging the other person is always a great start. I believe the key is to relax and be respectful. Think of things you have in common to talk about. Current events are always something good, but the key is, you are not bring up topic just for the heck of it. Take interest in the other person. Ask intellegent questions, ask questions that will lead to more questions. Remember, conversation is like tennis, as a guy, you got the serve. When the girl volleys the ball back to you, you gotta keep the rally going by volleying it back. Hope it helps.
2007-02-04 08:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by crunchtime88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just introduce yourself and ask her if she went to (insert school). Tell her she looks familiar, ask her if she ever worked at (insert company). This is a good way to find where she did go to school and where she works. If she likes you then she should add something to the conversation. If she just gives yes and no answers and is looking around the room while talking to you- walk away she's not attracted to you. Good luck!
2007-02-04 16:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel-I'm the same. I go out to the restaurants & clubs,etc. I don't try to pick women up, sometimes the same women will say hi to me & will talk, then I'll I talk with them, then I slowly get to know them.-It's very women try to pick me up/hit on me-it happened more yrs ago, but maybe I'm getting old. (I let them make the first moves, then I know they're interested.)-anyways good luck.
2007-02-04 16:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋