I like this girl at work and I think she likes me. I made fun of her in the company of others in what I thought was a light-hearted, teasing kind of way. But if im honest I was probably having a dig at her too. I accused her of doing well at work because a few of the supervisors fancied her.These guys are sleaze bags and I thought I directed the remarks more at those guys than at her. But she thought I was having a go at her only and was pretty annoyed. She was hot and cold with me at work. A supervisor was trying to flirt with her and she made a remark back to him which he took wrongly. She was trying to be flirty and he interpreted her remark as being cheeky. She got into trouble over it. This sort of proved what I said was correct. After this she was totally pissed with me. I didnt say anything about the incident. She didnt say anything to me but she ignored me the rest of the week. I figure she was both angry and embarrassed and directed these emotions at me rightly or wrongly.
2007-02-04 07:47:06 · 3 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was not going to apologise because I felt she had overreacted. Also because there was truth in what I had said and this was why she was angry. But I thought about it and felt I should apologise. So I did. I did by txt because I felt she wouldnt let me talk to her about it. Also because it was getting late to give an apology. I said what I said was wrong and stupid and it all came out the wrong way. She replied quickly to tell me not to worry abiut it, that it didnt bother her. I know it did cos her friends told me so. Do you reckon she forgives me? And do you think she is lying it didnt bother her? Or that she realises she overreacted and treated me a bit harsh and this is her way of making me feel better? I figure she didnt want me to think she is weak or needy as she projects herself as a strong, independent unemptional type. This is why I didnt want to talk to her about it for fear of embarrassing her. Did I do the right thing?
2007-02-04 07:50:11 · update #1
Are you a woman? Seriously.
You certainly over-analyze.
You have apologized via text (you big girl) because you don't have the b*lls to face her. And now you won't even let her "save face" by blowing the whole thing off as no big deal.
Let It Go! You have done too much already.
2007-02-04 18:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi K
If your question is anything to go by... I think you have done too much already!
Just get on with your accounts or whatever it is you are supposed to be doing at work & fill your brain to stop it wandering off
In the 'distant' future 'if' you should ever get to be in a position of 'power' you will no doubt have a similar girl in your ofice that you fancy.
2007-02-08 02:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask her out? make it a casual thing so she doesn't have to see it as a date & it's not awkward if she says no at work but see where it gets you.
you obviously really like her if you're this worried about how she feels.
move on & leave the comments in the past x
2007-02-05 06:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋