i am still in love with my exbf we are not together but it has been 4 month now and i do still love him very much
2007-02-04 07:44:21 · 12 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No man is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry!
2007-02-04 07:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by man with the golden gun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breathe
Give yourself time, that is all you can do. Sorry, there is not magic answer.
I have this poem pinned to my fridge, its by the poet Derek Walcott, good luck, I understand.
Love After Love
The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.
2007-02-04 07:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by TellMeWhy? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personanlly I think you should stay away from dating. Because once you get back into that, then things start to remind you of that person. And then you end up hurt more. And plus because you are soo hurt from that person you are more likely to go out with someone just to go out with them, not because you like them.So I think you should stick with your friends, they are always the best antidote.
2007-02-04 09:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by grumpybear0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh thats relaly nice . and glad that u have same feelings as before.. if he is with someone other already as u been aparted 4 months.. and if u r lucky to get him alone..u will get him back..show girls power gal.. u know how to atract guys.. use ur nice talks..nice body language..show him u are changed and don't act same like you been acting in front of him..show selfconfidence...basic thing is do care him but don't annoy him too much by giving more care..... eating much suger tends to be bitter.... so he will take u as granted.. never do that.. think and do step by step process....best of luck.. be happy.
2007-02-04 07:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
short and sweet find someone else to take your mind off him. If you've told him how you feel and he hasnt came back then your best to just get on with your life he is obviously getting on with his. Oh and remember dont get down over a guy they never turn out to be worth it.
2007-02-04 07:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by suzie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on, date other men, dilute your ex's influence, do things with other bfs, that you did with the ex. Make it that nothing you did was that special.
Just don't use new bf's to get over ex. just date for the fun of doing so.
2007-02-04 07:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Sounds harsh, but it's true.
2007-02-04 07:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get up get your lippy on go out with your girly friends and have some fun,men ain't the be all and end all,there's thousands of the numptys out there unfortunatly....
2007-02-04 08:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop telling yourself you love him...stop thinking that you still love him
find something to do....
and try to think of the things that irritate you about him....and why you deserve someone better
2007-02-04 08:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by psalm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like hes got over u, love urself as soon as u do that u would be happy
2007-02-08 07:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋