did you do it? why??? why did they do it?!?!
i have cut in the past
2007-02-04 07:19:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a friend that does it she does it to relive stress and she don't do it for attention she does it to make other pain go away like stress and problems with her boyfriend and stuff like that she said other pain takes that pain away you know how some people get drunk she cuts everybody haves there on needs to relive stress
2007-02-04 07:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone who cuts themselves(known as self mutilation) gets off on the pain. This could be for several reasons, to atone for some wrong doing that they think they might of done or caused, or to simply suppress feelings, or a cry for attention from someone or anyone. There are also some genetic diseases that have symptoms of self mutilation. The former one is more likely as the latter would have been noticed early on. The most important thing is this person needs help and guidance to deal with there emotions and stress before serious injury results.
2007-02-04 15:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by joeprichards 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people who harm themselves like that are very tormented and frustrated about their life or an issue about something in particular and feel hopeless, like they have no control over the situation, hence, they turn on themselves out of frustration.
They need to examine their feelings and find out what it is that they feel they have no control over and work through the issue by talking it out, or doing some soul searching, or seeing a minister, or reading pschology books or seeking therapy.
2007-02-04 15:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a few people that do it...most of them are girls. They do it because they feel like they will never find the right guy for them and if they are very sad they say it take away the sadness because it takes their mind off of being sad. I hate to hear them do it and I would be with them but things wouldn't work out..i mean who wants to be with someone who cuts themself?It's kind of scary so I just talk to them and try to give them advice.
2007-02-04 15:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Memphis10Grizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend used to cut herself. She did it because she was an only child her mother was battling cancer, her dad was trying to get a divorce and leave her mother to die in the hospital with all the stress of the divorce, and people at school were picking on her and bullying her. She didnt have a way to cope with he pain until she when to thearpy and now uses poerty and her new friend, me, to vent with since i know how it is to have to watch a parent battle cancer.
2007-02-04 15:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't but I had a friend that did. She was having a lot of family problems and believed it was her only way out. But now after she got help she thinks of it as the stupidest thing she's ever done and regrets it.
2007-02-04 15:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever read the book "CUT" by Patricia Mccormick ? It is a good book on a girl who cuts.
2007-02-04 15:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by snowbody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people who cut themselves have no control over their hands.... or life
2007-02-04 15:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have a friend that cut themself because she said it helped het with soical(b/f) problems
2007-02-04 15:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend use to do it... thats only because she was very depressed and upset.
2007-02-04 15:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋