i met this guy online and me and him have been talking about meeting up in person. i love him and he loves me. but theres one BIG thing i havent told him.... ive been in more than 10 adult films. is that something i should tell him?
2007-02-04 07:18:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send him a copy of one of your films, explain to him that's me the one with a male member in every outlet. I bet after that he will be real comfortable having unprotected sex with you.
2007-02-04 07:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by mycatsdead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should....if you love him and he loves you then there should be trust between the two of you....can you imagine him introducing u to some of his mates and when they tell him they've seen you in those adult films how he would react????and how would you feel??? he may not even give you time to explain yourself....
trust and truth is the first and most important pillar of any relationship...if you're not straight with him now you will have to lie your butt off if you guysend up getting serious....its not worth hiding....i know ur probably worried about telling him and wondering what he will think...but think it out carefully and tell him everything....you may not lose him....he may appreciate you for telling him the truth.....at least that way you maintain your own and his dignity.
2007-02-04 15:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't even met you, you can't know that you love each other. You could meet and be completely turned off by the other. You need to be honest in any relationship and not disclosing information would be dishonest. Tell him before you meet. He'll probably want to know what movies you've been in and watch them.
2007-02-04 15:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by waterskiergal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um-#1 until you meet up with him you can't say you love him #2 he does not need to know that until you meet up or he will probably not want to meet you
2007-02-04 15:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you get to know one another. If you think the relationship is progressing to something more than you should be open and honest.
2007-02-04 15:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by ambrosius15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you wait or if he finds out later he will feel that you lied to him and betrayed him by hiding your past. If he really loves you he will not be concerned with your past.
2007-02-04 15:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by skkydreemer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What adult films have you been in?
2007-02-04 15:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Con 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when you both meet in person . it would be better than telling him now boefore meeting in person, i guess!
2007-02-04 16:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by [Un]beloved 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him about it and if he realy loves you as you said he will respect that you told him about it and may forget it.
2007-02-04 15:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by mikenanadakis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him He might like it.
I know that I would
2007-02-05 11:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋