My bf started ignoring me for no apparent reason, although if I called him, he would answer and be pleasant on the phone. I left it a week, during that time, I didn't hear from him, I called him and he said he would call me later as he was at work. 10pm came and I texted him basically saying "if you wanted to end it you should have told me, just bin the stuff I left at your place". No call came, no text. However, he's on MSN alot more often now, and hasn't blocked me, it's like he wants me to see him and initiate conversation. What's he playing at? and do you think he'll call? I'm confused...
This happened a while back and I went back with him. Do you think he's expecting me to do it again, hence why he hasn't bothered calling?! I've known him for 2 years!! He's 38 yrs old.
2007-02-04 07:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him.
2007-02-04 07:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Hil<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you are done and do not pursue him at all. He is probably exploring other options and thinks youwill always be there. Well you need to show him that you have value and your feeling count and if does not respect them then he has lost you. You might be better off without him.
2007-02-04 15:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like the biggest player and most immature 38 year old I have ever heard of. You want a man sweetie, not a 17 year old!!!
2007-02-04 15:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he wants to see how you will react. You should ask him what is going on, you cant just keep on playing childish games. im not saying im 100% correct but you need to find out sooner or later
2007-02-04 15:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby the term is
A S S H O L E
2007-02-04 15:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by soquetrumpet1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be insecure and wanting to know that you don't want to end it. If you still want to be with him (aside from the recent behavior) just talk to him and tell him how you feel. He should come around.
2007-02-04 15:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wat. it's not dat ur nuhin to him but he jud doen't wanna live in da past. who really does. lets look into da future. stop addressing urself as his ex girl and strart addressin ur self as his friend. let him think ur over him even if ur not. that way, he'll feel he can come to u as a friend and not as da awkward ex-boyfriend. u 2 can start on a new leaf and progress from there.
2007-02-04 15:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by bambam#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
38!!!!!! no.. dont run after him, he's old enough to know what he's doin and he clearly is not worth your time. Life is about compramise and getting over your stubborn streak he obviously hasnt learnt this yet and at he's age i doubt he will now.
2007-02-04 15:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who knows, men r very complicated
2007-02-04 15:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by greengrass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋