There's this stalker guy and he won't leave me alone and i went out with him before but that didn't work out but now he won't stop calling me. It's annoying and I kinda have feelings for him but i don't like him like that. And his friend is really sexy!!
2007-02-04 07:11:15 · 19 answers · asked by Perfection 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try a restraining order
2007-02-04 07:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by singledad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you liked him well enough to go out with him when you were feeling alone? But now that you see his buddy, you're all over it? Two things you have to do. First, you look him in the eye or write a letter (dated, registered mail) and ask him to NOT contact you again and that he can see how serious you are due to the aforementioned registered notice.Second - do not get together with his buddy because that would make avoiding HIM more difficult. they're FRIENDS, remember? Hard for him to keep his distance if you are hovering around his best pal. Time to set your sights on new territory, and good luck,
2007-02-04 07:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a little twist. I'd personally make it CLEAR that I'm not interested in dating him. If he still doesn't quit, or it gets worse, get your phone number changed. If it gets to the point that he starts following you home, get the police involved.
Dating his friend will make him angry. He will then turn into a dangerous stalker.
2007-02-04 07:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a stalker guy and it didn't work out, why do you have feelings for him? Stay away from him and don't answer his calls.
2007-02-04 07:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by waterskiergal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess some people are the same in very different ways but in same situations cause that has happened to me and still does cause i knew him friends but it just got to the point where he called my house every single day and he passed by my house honking and playing loud music so i answer his phone calls we talk and its calmed down more than before cause when he found out i was with someone he threatened them with a knife and then my boyfriend called me and he claimed that someone had popped all his tires at work and that they said i like your girlfriend so we really freaked out
2007-02-04 07:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask him why he's bothering you and tell him that it's annoying and if he doesn't stop your going to call the police. If you like his friend then ask him out, nothing can go wrong, even if you get rejected. Rejection doesn't mean the world is over, just that it's not your lucky day.
2007-02-04 07:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK first off, get an order of protection against this guy from your nearest majestrate. It's free and easy, and believe me you'll feel alot safer after. As for his friend, don't take any chances. He is too close to your ex, and thats only going to complicate matters.
2007-02-04 07:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by lakecountry40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this guy will NOT leave you alone and you have told him.. go to the police and tell them. And if you like his friend than go for it!
2007-02-04 07:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a restraining order.
2007-02-04 07:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Escape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not interested. STAY AWAY FROM THE FRIEND that's a good way to stoke a fire.
2007-02-04 07:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by pnutallergymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋