Your questions stems from the root question of 'What is my worth?' and Who cares?
What is my worth? Who cares?
Don't let the world fool you by the theory of natural selection (Survival of the strongest). If that were true only the strong would be on earth now.
You're worth does not stem from what you can do. Its whats been done for you. God thought it worth to die for you. To give up his place in heaven and die a horrible death so that you can have life. That's your worth. He calls you the apple of his eye.
Place your life into his hands and make yourself available. See what God can make out of you. Its a challenge.
Will you be punished in Hell for Suicide?
I cant quote you a bible verse to say either yes or no. Jesus already told us that there is a Hell. He said its a lake of fire, a place of separation from God. What ever the picture painted, its not a nice place to be in.
Each one is unique, so you going to hell or heaven is based on your life here in earth. God knows what your going thru and also knows if you were in the right mind to make that decision.
But let me say this that your life is not yours. Its Gods. If you take it, your stealing. That's sin.
So wake up dear. Ask Jesus to forgive you and go out a live a life that's full of His promises. He will never let you down.
Test it. You have nothing to loose.
2007-02-04 07:38:00
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answered by Fernandes 3
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There is no hell. Hell is a bedtime story to keep people from doing bad things, it uses the coersion of fear. The thing that bothers me the most about your post is that you seem to attribute imperfection as the reason for your desire for suicide. You do not seem unintelligent so I'm going to rule that out of the debate, as well as weakness, because you seem very strongwilled. This would leave just appearance. And that is a silly reason to kill yourself.
before you get mad at me, i do not look like other people and was singled out at school for being unattractive. It wasn't until I was out of highschool and on my own that I developed a good self esteem. I do have a mate and a really great kid. If I would have let myself sink into a deep depression and committed suicide, I would never have had my son or met my wonderful hubs.
Life is short anyway, the older you get the faster it goes. The impression you make on others has a lot to do with your personality (sense of humor works wonders) and how you choose to see yourself. Don't let this moment in time determine your future.
2007-02-04 15:16:16
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all true beauty comes from inside. Looks are important but ask your self how does a blind person see? To answer your question about suicide. To take a life is wrong in any manner, that includes your own. The lord has reserved that right only to himself as to when a person should die. To take your own life is like killing someone else, it stops the eternal progression of that person and then they cannot learn all that God wants them to learn. I will try to help you understand better if you wish, email me.
2007-02-04 15:18:28
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answered by saintrose 6
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I don't think so. But I wouldn't advise you to find out.
SUICIDE PREVENTION
Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens
National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention
2007-02-07 01:37:41
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answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6
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Here's the interesting point. Many people think that after death they will still be conscious of themselves as a "self." If, for example we are in love with the romantic "tragic" pose, we think that we will be able to enjoy our self-centered misery after death in hell, like a self-regarding romantic hero, and that others will be equally aware of our "self" and our situation.
The truth is that after we die, in time most of the people we want to punish by committing suicide at them will forget us, going on with their lives, and we, the tragic victims of misunderstanding society, will be merely dead.
So, there's no real profit to suicide.
The notion that you are an "unattractive man" is a problem of self-perception and the feelings that lead you to consider suicide are symptoms of depression, which is an illness from which I suffered for many years.
I was fortunate enough to find help. I went to a psychologist, who in turn sent me to a psychiatrist who prescribed anti-depressant medications which I took while undergoing therapy. After several years in therapy, I was able to retrain my thinking, which enabled me to get off of the medication and get on with living what has now become a very pleasant life.
I would suggest that you might do well to find some similar help. If you have any questions, please feel free to send an e-mail.
2007-02-04 15:20:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Oops i clicked it taking as a simple question with simple answer , that the person who commits suicide will always live in hell (according to my religion) But okay let me go in details of your question? i m taking your question serious....So you are a disappointed person with no aim in life and could not get love in life ?? Hey do you have your both eye working?? your limbs are perfect?? can you walk ,eat, sleep and see well?? have you ever seen some handicaps?? deaf, dumb, disable peoples?? i have seen many and i always feel happy to see them how hopeful they are they know how to fight the life being able to know that still life is not that easy to live and they are kind of misfit in society ......Life is not just about being beautiful and getting love........its much more than this.....ummmm Are you a useful person to the peoples around you? if you are then i find no reason for you to get disappointed..........man ! a person is liked by his charactor and sincerity not by beauty !! Mind you ! Just look around you and you wuld see many peoples who are not beautiful but they are loved just because they are loving to others.....love begets love..try to be positive......try to love others and you would se how loving your peoples are to you....well sitting apart and thinking yourself a useless person won't work...man!! this is your life and you will have to spend it...so why not live it with bravery?? Why you want to bea coward and die?? and at the end get nothing? Be thankful to the creator that he has given you life and is kind to you , the only thing your have to do is to "search' the positivity in yourself....and you will see how beautiful life is!
Good luck ! and again telling you suicide is an act of cowadness ....again a negative point of personality ! tc
2007-02-04 15:25:18
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answered by Anonymous
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i think wondering what happens after you commit suicide is a good question. personally i am torn between two answers. does your soul stay in limbo after suicide, or is it just something that was meant to happen to you in life? my dad believes you become stuck as a ghost, because you chose to end your own life early, not by destiny or fate.
so suicide is a sin. it is like an insult to god, like telling him he made a mistake by giving you your life. but he doesn't make mistakes. he wants you to learn from your mistakes. i think people are put down here to learn important lessons, and you can go to heaven only AFTER wisdom is achieved.
2007-02-04 17:21:04
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answered by Jina 4
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Suicide is a direct violation of Gods Holy word.
Suicide is rebellion, suicide says: God, you screwed up, I am going to fix it.
God does not make mistakes, perhaps you need to realize that your life does not belong to you. You and your life were created by God to serve Him. God made you to have fellowship with Him.
God loves each and everyone of us, equally, with no favoritism.
Our lives can become lonely and unhappy when we live for ourselves. This isn't the life that God chooses for us, it is the life that we choose through our disobedience to what God has called us to do. I truly believe if you are feeling these emotions, God is speaking to you. He is trying to get your attention. Do it MY WAY God says: and I will Bless you. Sometimes our own selfish desires can keep God from blessing us. For you, it may be the love of a woman that you hold more dearly than your love for God.
Change your priorities and you will open the door for God to pour out His blessings in your life. Put Christ Jesus first in everything and you will prosper in everything. God does not look at the physical body as we humans do. God sees our insides, our heart and soul, this is what God sees. He may have the perfect woman waiting for you, but your indifference to Him keeps you single, lonely and depressed. When god brings two people together in marriage, He does not say to Himself: He or She is beautiful, I must find a beautiful person for them to marry. God sees the insides of the two people He would have be married.
Depression and suicidal thought are a trick of satan to keep you from enjoying a joyful life. From having a meaningful relationship with God. I believe when we arrive in heaven, God will show each and everyone of us, all the blessings that we never received because of sin or unbelief on our part. God wants to bless you with the perfect partner and a loving family.
Will you put Him first in your life, in order to receive His blessings? Or will you continue to run your own life and simply blame Him for your sorrow.
God Bless You....Peace.
2007-02-04 16:27:19
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answered by Anonymous
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I am someone who do-sent feel suicides are doomed to hell (no one has the right to say anyone will go there only God can say this)A person who takes his or her own life is not in their right mind when they do so My God would never condemn someone who was mentally ill!
2007-02-04 15:12:25
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answered by revdauphinee 4
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You are not imperfect. You are exactly the way you are supposed to be. There is no such thing as "imperfect." All things are what they are.
Many unattractive men and women find love.
There is no hell except the one you are creating for yourself.
2007-02-04 15:11:59
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answered by Huddy 6
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