We have been living in the US for 7 years and my brother changed into different person. He used to be very religious but now, he doesn't care about anything. I'm not saying coming to the US cause this, I'm just saying that now, he hangs out with bad influence friends. Some of his friends went to jail once or twice.
My brother came home 4 in the morning for several weeks. I was wondering where he came from. I pretended like I was asleep when he enter to the door but my mom was really sleeping. Today, my brother and his friend was talking so I ear dropped, his friend said, "So, how was the club"? And he said, "I got a lot of hot girl's number."
I know if my mom finds out that he is going to the clubs, she'll kick him out of her house. I don't want my brother out of the house, that will give him even more freedom which means he is going to drop out of school, get high all day and go to the clubs.
Everybody that knows my brother thinks he is innocent young boy.
2007-02-04 07:04:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hes going through a bad patch in his life im sure your mum will catch him out adventually unless she is turning a blind eye to it. Dont say anything unless u want your brother to leave.
2007-02-04 11:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is old enough to go he isn't breaking the law right :)
Have you spoke with him about it? Ask him what he is doing out so late? Say, that you heard he was going to the clubs. Ask him what he would think if your Mom found out? Maybe, he is doing to rebel?
If he gets all grumpy and stuff with you tell him never mind I was just worried is all.
You are stuck between a rock and a hard place - you want your brother in a safe place but don't want to be the one to rat him out. BUt if you think that it will stop him from becoming like the rest of the crew he is with you might be doing him a favor in the long run.
Smiles
2007-02-04 09:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't say how old he is. If he's old enough, then you guys can't hold him back. You should tell your mum what's going on, and tell her, instead of approaching him, trap him >;D. Maybe she could stay up til he gets back home and then question him on the spot. Otherwise, he'll know you told her.
2007-02-04 08:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, especially if he is drinking and doing drugs. it doesn't matter if he is underage or not you need to let your mom know so she can talk to him and get him some help if he needs it. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-04 11:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋