I am not talking about a small issue. Rather, if they set someone up with a potential while you are still single. Or they prefer to tell others about certain things and leave you out.
2007-02-04 06:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Inamra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first you need to find out inside you why you feel betrayed.is it because you are to insecure about yourself? are your parents suppose to tell you everything?i do not think so.they have some knowledge you have not. grow up and remember they do not owe you everything you want.quite being such a baby.tell them you love them more often instead of being so selfish and thinking of only what you want !!!
2007-02-04 07:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by JAYHAWKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to disappoint you, but if you feel that by setting up two people they thought might make a good couple (which really has NOTHING to do with you, whether you are single or not) and not telling you something they told others is an act of "betrayal," then you have a lot to learn about what truly being "betrayed" means.
If you insist on taking everything they do as a personal blessing or betrayal, your life will be very difficult. You sound awfully young.. either that, or awfully immature. Time to grow up a bit in your attitude, and stop basing how you "treat" your parents on the imagined "wrongs" they've done to you.
Every religion and culture has something similar to the biblical edict to "honor thy father and mother"... not just when they make you happy, but at all times.
2007-02-04 15:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Amy S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your parents did something very cruel, but I'd give them a fair chance to support their actions before you get too angry. Think about why they might have done whatever it was, what GOOD intentions they might have had, as hard as that may be. If you can't find a reason, talk to them about it, and ask them what they really meant by what they did. If their response really doesn't justify their actions, then ask a close mentor figure, someone to whom you can tell the specific offense, what to do. I hope this helps a bit.
2007-02-04 15:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by GeekGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I am in the similar situation. My mother always whined about my wife to my sister and brother which they have spread further. I had tried to improve understanding, but somethings really can't be changed. I have now given up and keep myself and my family distant from these negative people.
We are happy in our small world because we don't have to deal with that anymore....perfectly happy?..probably not.
2007-02-04 15:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Freddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betrayal, to me, is an abusive parents such as I had who never admitted to the abuse. Believe me, things can be much worse, so count your blessings. Are you sure that you're talking about betrayal? Is it truly deliberate? Have you discussed this with them? Maybe they think you're OK and aren't trying to hurt you?
2007-02-04 15:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't speak to my parents whatsoever due to the fact that I am in the same situation as you are...I would rather not get into details but I have disowned them.
2007-02-04 16:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what they are still your parents respect them and move on from the things that they do to you
2007-02-04 14:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel about the issues at hand if they don't understand your feelings then they are really a sad case of being parents
2007-02-04 14:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not enough details. I don't know how old you are. Just don't talk to them anymore if they are going to be jackasses.
2007-02-04 14:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by QWERTY 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they are your parent it dont sound bad still respect them no matter what
2007-02-04 15:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Summer G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋