I have recently started dating again after being divorced. I supprizingly have gotten a lot of intrest, and have gone out with several people. There are two that I like and would probably date either one, however I'm not sure which yet. Should I tell them I am seeing the other, or wait till Im asked? Or what?
2007-02-04 06:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by goodbrownguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should tell them (no names), and especially if you sleep with them. Otherwise you could find yourself blindsided by jealous angry women. Don't make a big deal. Just make it clear that you intende to date around and not get serious. That way they know to guard their hearts against getting hung up on someone who has no plans to be exclusive.
2007-02-04 06:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Do not tell them you are going out specifically with another. the best way to approach this is with extreme caution as you may end up with nothing. Be general to them in that you are dating "others" right now.
2007-02-04 14:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing. There's no reason to tell the other unless you are having sexual relations with one or the other or both. Keep your cell phone on vibrate and your answering machine on silent.
Take your time, you deserve it.
2007-02-04 14:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by therazorsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell you wife or the one you love evrything the truth will make your relation last & the lies rope is thin so don't hold on to it longer
2007-02-04 14:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship then you need to be honest with them. Honesty goes a long way.
2007-02-04 14:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can earn a lot of credibility if you are honest and open up to them. If you wait until you're asked, it will appear that you are trying to hide it, which women really seem to hate.
2007-02-04 14:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your a free agent, but if one or the other finds out that you are " 2 timing" you will probably lose both of them. failing that,is a threesome out of the question . lol
2007-02-04 14:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by hairyegg25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are seeing another, it may be hard, but it is the right thing to do.
2007-02-04 14:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by nOvEmBeR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are really serious tell thembout the other, else hang on and watch how things go
2007-02-04 14:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by avniskandhan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the less you say may be the best thing to say
2007-02-04 14:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋