ok me and my girl have been together for a year and we have a child thats 3 months old and at the begining of our relationship she told me she only slept wit 3 guys in her life and then a couple of months later we was talkin and she told me 4 guys and she said it was befor we got together now how do i know that it was befor we got together or she cheated on me and everytime i bring it up she gets an attitude and say she never cheated on me and never will but my thing is why did she tell me 4 when it was really 3 and i was included in that three to remind u
2007-02-04 05:59:37 · 4 answers · asked by L.A. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is never wise to ask about past lovers, it can create jealousy and harsh feelings. Let the past be the past. There is nothing you can do about it anyway, and there is no need for your future relationship to be messed up by something that happened when you weren't together. You really need to ask her why she told you 3 instead of 4, a good way to say this is to explain that you don't think she is lying (even though you may feel different) and tell her it bothers you and you want to know. She might be getting offensive because she thinks you think she cheated on you.
2007-02-04 06:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get all jealous on the girl. Some women lie about the number of guys they have slept with because they dont want to turn off the guy they are with. She does not know the number that will turn you off so she guessed. She thought that one less guy would be better. It was a quick decision. Trust me if she cheated on you, she would not mention that she had sex with 4 guys. If you asked her how many guys she has slept with, and she cheated on you, when she went through the guys in her mind, she would leave that guy out (that is what i think). Believe what she said. She is just trying to be honest with you.
2007-02-04 14:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing to understand. I don't know why people get hung up on that number before them. What she did before the two of you were together really isn't your business. And I know that sounds harsh, but sex is (or should be personal) If you love her, trust her. She is with you now, don't let something as silly as a number mess up your relationship. Or better yet, ask yourself this...Which is more important the number? or your child?
2007-02-04 14:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by himaintance75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just forgot about one of them , no big deal. At least she hasn't slept with any since you've been togather. That's what's important ,right.
2007-02-04 14:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋