Im the writer who is supposed to go to a superbowl party with my boyfriend today. He worked last nite and will probably be sleeping all day long. He has this thing where he drinks himself into impotence and then we cannot have sex until he sobers up after 24 hours. Its just plain getting old.
Today he wants me to come over when I get thru making snacks for the party and crawl in bed with him. I do not sleep with him because his drinking problems, ex wife, and interfering adult kids are getting on my nerves and I need to make a point somehow that this is going no where. I plan to never make a futile attempt at having sex with him again. Its a big disappointment and there is not reason to get naked for him. He doesnt turn me on. Its ridiculous and I deserve someone who puts me 1st. I just plain feel sorry for him. How do I break the news? Just pop in with the snacks 10 minutes before its time to leave?
2007-02-04 05:56:49 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I go because his mother sent me money for Christmas and sent me photo's via e mail and even though she cannot quit talking about his wonderful ex wife, she has been kind to me. I try to let it not bug me. She is old.
2007-02-04 06:21:57 · update #1
If you stay with him he won't think you are naive and stupid - he will KNOW you are.
2007-02-04 06:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if there is any reason to be in a relationship with this person.
Why are you wasting your time with someone who treats you like a maid and a slave.????
Why are you making snacks for the party, and having to crawl into bed with him????
I would leave him sleeping right where he is. Let him make his own snacks and explain why you are no longer being his doormat.
I do not see one positive thing in this relationship for you. Good luck.
2007-02-04 06:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him. This guy sounds like such a slug. Yet you are with him...and have been for a long time. Yet the world is full of good guys that can't get a date because women like you keep going out with theas slugs. Saddly, you will just move on to the next jerk too....
2007-02-04 06:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what he thinks, but I sure think you're stupid. You come on here and whine and cry about your relationship with this guy and how you don't even want to be with him, but yet your still going to be bringing the snacks today. Want to break the news to him, here are some simple words to say " I'm leaving you"
2007-02-04 06:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, if he is telling you to make snacks, why put up with it. Don't be with a guy that is telling you to do things, and expects you to be with him after your done with all his chores. If he is such a big disappointment, then get out of this relationship, there is someone out there that will put you first.
2007-02-04 06:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by nOvEmBeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have any consideration for a man's feelings when he doesn't seem to have any for you? Don't even attempt having sex with him again. And yes, dump him, the sooner, the better.
2007-02-04 06:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋