Look, we're all going to die in a couple of years. So, I don't feel like putting in an effort to try to make someone happy, which I don't like doing, or looking for someoen. So why do I need a girlfriend? I hate love. I have never asked a girl out, because I am ugly, although people have told me I'm attractive, but they must be blind. I would be embrassed. I can never be embrassed. I don't deserve love if it actually is as good as people say, which it isn't. I can't ever reward myself with anything. Love is not for people with an iron fist, like me, because it ruins your reputation and makes you look submissive. If I did happen to want a girl, she would never be seen with me, otherwise, people would laugh at me and think I'm weak. I would probably beat her brains out, because I'm violent. I would much rather sit at my house, eat, and drink champagne all day instead of putting up with all that romance crap .I like being lonely, and don't tell me I have a problem, because I don't.
2007-02-04 05:54:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is painfully obvious in your post that you actually are wishing you had someone who loved you unconditionally and that you could love.
I suspect the post was put here for attention and comments more than anything. I feel for you, it's hard being so unhappy and miserable.
Blessings to you, and Grandma hugs to you.
2007-02-04 06:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, I once knew a person who was anti-relationship because they are so time consuming, etc. Then she met a man who was anti-relationship and anti-marriage too and now they are married! When they met, they had a lot in common and did not date but just went out "as friends". One day you will meet the right person. You do not have to go through that dating thing to find the right person. It will just happen. I think you like being alone, not lonely. Obviously, you can entertain yourself. There is no wrong or right here, so don't date if you don't want to.
If you are violent, you might want to take some anger management courses.
If you want to remain single forever, the Catholic Church is in desperate need of priests. (smile). Just kidding.
2007-02-04 14:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well there you go....you don't need us, you already have all the answers. You are so pathetic , I don't feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for your parents, you must make life a living hell for them with all your"OOOh... help me I'm so ugly bullsh#t" If you think you know everything (which from your question, you know nothing) than crawl back to your little room play on your computer, your PlayStation,or play with yourself.....and for God's sake leave the rest of us alone!!! Or get up and join the rest of us and try to make a good life, quit thinking your anything! We all have a story and we all have pain and most of us a lot worse than you! So buck up or shut up!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 14:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
people like romance because it makes them feel loved. it is a wonderful feeling when the person you love actually does something good to let you know that they really care and that they really love you. i dont think that you have a problem, i just think that you're sad and lonely. yes we may die, but it doesnt mean that we have to die unhappy. i dont believe that you're ugly, i just think that you need to find the 1 person that will make you feel what love and romance is. i dont blame you for the way you think as people who usually get hurt in relationships usually feel the way you do. i dont think you're violent either, i think that you're 1 of the most loveable person ever,who is just going through a rough time. i think you need to forgive yourself for whatever happened and start enjoying life to the fullest. just give it a try and you will never regret it, i promise.
2007-02-04 14:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by babyblue 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its stuipid to say you dont deserve love cause you do.no one in this planet is particularly better or worse off than you.
people like romance cause its makes you feel good.i cant beleive you dont like when some hasa smile on their face cause of you.
why the heck are you afraid of being submissive??
you know what?you are TERRIFIED of love.
you are afraid that its gonna tweak all your principles and makes get subjected to ridicule and pain.you probably dont have an "iron fist"or and maybe you are a shy guy inside all that icy exterior.cause if you didnt really care about love you wouldnt write about it like how you have.
.take care and dont run away from love.its not gonna kill you.
hope you find "eternal "love.
2007-02-04 14:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Shilpa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Then what's your question??? If you like being alone, then do the girls a favor and stay home alone. Why do you care that other people like romance? Do what you want, just don't drag other people down with you. Stay home alone, just you and your issues.
2007-02-04 14:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by himaintance75 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I totally agree with you, although I can reward myself. People like romance because the couplehood machine forces them to. They think anything's better than singlehood, but they fail to realize how rewarding it can be.
2007-02-04 14:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
WOW someone has issues - hey if you like being alone - all the power to ya. perosnally i am alone and hate it - crave the pressence of a male companion-like feeling comforted
2007-02-04 14:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by bananananana 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
allright. you are really messed up, and YOU DO HAVE A PROBLEM. I answered your previous question about "why are people having kids" since you feel the world is bad with war and poverty. I think you need to go to counseling. I can see why girls dont go out with you. Your attitude towards life is horrible.
2007-02-04 13:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by smiley chick 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Great, good for you... so if you like being lonely, why are you asking questions on a "Singles & Dating" section?
2007-02-04 13:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋