I hear ALL the time women want to be treated with respect, a nice guy, being appreciated for who they are, but at the same time would rather date an ex-convict who treats them like crap. Why is this so evident?
2007-02-04 05:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by ACTS 4:12 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it has more to do with the type of women YOU are attracted to and the type of women YOU attract. Obviously you can only speak from your own expierences and have no clue about what EVERY women on the planet wants in a man. I suggest you look inside yourself and figure out why you continue to be attracted to these kids of woman and what it is about YOU that attracts them to you.
2007-02-04 05:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons a woman would date a guy does not possess the qualities that she wants in a man. She may be insecure, all the good guys she is in contact with are married, and the biggest mistake is women think that they can change a man or mold them into a "good" man. Women are good hearted people who want to give men a chance, when they really dont deserve it.
2007-02-04 14:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do want to be treated with respect and they want someone to know who they are and never want them to change.
I cant speak for all women but I've dated guys who were convicts but that was because I felt that I didn't deserve anything better than that. Now I know different.
2007-02-04 14:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweetthang16_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found through personal experience that in most cases what they say they want, and what they actually date are (2) different things. Alot of them need that constant term oil in order to feel like they are alive. (I didnt say all) regardless alot of them are intrigued by the bad boy type. Oddly enough once they get the bad boy, the bad boy treats them like S H I T, then they complain about it. Going back to the term oil. Its not easy to figure out, so I suggest you dont try, you will just end up making yourself crazy. If your not an *** hole type, dont become one in hopes you might get the girl. Its not worth it, just be yourself, and one will appreciate you for you when the time is right.
2007-02-04 13:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the nice guy's cliche that doesn't sound good. We all need to be treated with respect, but we also need a man who has his own personality, a man who has a strong shoulder for us to lean on, and if you are being the quintessential good guy, it's not going to be as attractive as a man who's maybe more outspoken and brazen.
2007-02-04 13:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need respect and affection from any guy. These are the two main things.
A man has to be considerate, caring and must always respect a woman, her privacy and her needs.
2007-02-04 13:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lynne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want respectful ex-cons who appreciate them for the crap they are in a nice manner.
2007-02-04 14:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I don't think most of them know what they want. I have found that out first hand.
2007-02-04 13:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody who they can trust over anybody.
somebody who can make them laugh like no one else can.
somebody who tells them they're beautiful, not sexy.
somebody who complements them, but not too much.
somebody who won't judge them, & will be their best friend
somebody who won't break their heart.
&& if the guy DOES break her heart...a guy thats WORTH THE PAIN.
somebody that's not embarrased to kiss/hug/say "i love you" in front of their friendz.
somebody who won't let anybody offend, or hurt them.
somebody who they can call their own.
hope i helped!
2007-02-04 13:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Spongebob ") 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a guy to be hot and want me badly.
If you're holding hands and you friends pull your hands a part to be funny i want a guy to grab it right back .
that's what my boyfriend does and I love it when he does that( I'm only ten years old and we've already kissed.
2007-02-04 13:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋