hes cheating on me with 1 of my best friends
2007-02-04 05:44:51 · 22 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell em where to go.
2007-02-04 05:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by glass. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have NO tolerance for cheating. I have been burned twice (once by my best friend) and just think it's crap. I've seen on Google Video and stuff women who do things like put up billboards to embarass their cheating spouses.I love that because we men hate to be embarassed (ego and all..) Maybe run an ad in the paper.John, I'm so happy for you and Jen. Maybe you should have broken up with me first scumbag!-That kind of thhing. Pay the extra to make sure it's big.Don't tell him first cause he'll just lie.
And Whoa Kayla-6 above me! Watch that language girl! And do your parents know you're on here? Sheesh.We used to ride Big Wheels and stuff when I was 10...
2007-02-04 13:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to catch him in the act! If you are not able to do that then just walk up to him and be like well I know that you have been cheating on me with my best friend and I am tired of living with it so this is what I have to say! It is over and you can stay with her all that you want!
2007-02-04 13:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. If he does it now, he will do it later. However, if you are not engaged and did not have an understanding to just date each other exclusively, then he does have the right to date other people. But your best friend has no excuse whatsoever. Obviously, she is not your best friend. Dump both of them and move on with your life. Just give them the cold shoulder and squeeze them out of your life. Only tell them if they ask you why you are ignoring them, otherwise have some class and dignity and move on without creating a scene and confronting them.
2007-02-04 13:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the worst of all cases. Lose the loser boyfriend and the friend. Neither cared for you to begin with if they would begin a relationship while you were still together. Find new friends and start dating new guys you deserve better people in your life. Just be glad you found out what cheaters they are before you were serious or enganged.
2007-02-04 13:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him and her point blank you know about the 2 of them and its over..find a new man and find a better best friend. Allow yourself time to heal but you can do better than these 2.....
2007-02-04 13:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow how about this if shes ur best frined she wouldnt do that to you i think this is what u should do and what i would do, call him up or go to his house tell him that you know whats goig on and you know hes cheating break up and leave or hang up do not!! call him back or answer if he calls tell ur little so call best frined shes a ho and let her go to and tell your other frineds what she did so that she doesnt get them on her side trust me!
2007-02-04 14:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you should have asked that question,you should have just gone ahead and break up with him. this guy has no respect for you. if he loved you in any way he would never be cheating on you, especially with your bestfriend. remember that love comes with respect, if a guy says he loves you and dont respect you, then he is just playing you cause that aint love.
2007-02-04 13:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by babyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of them
If you tell him, he'll deny it all the way. He'll be dead before admitting it.
If you dump him. he'll say you're crazy and that you were unfair or unfaithful and just blame it all on you.
Si him down and bomb him with the facts: physical evidence: photos, emails, recordings, everything you have besides your words.
That never fails.
2007-02-04 13:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him beacuse if you just brake up with him and don't say why then he might think that your cheating on him and tell everybody that you were cheating on him. I'd tell them both andsay what u feel.
2007-02-04 13:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you know and then go out with his best friend..Good Luck
2007-02-04 13:52:34 · answer #11 · answered by --Breathtaking-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋