is this normal?

Question

i wouldn't say i am a vain person, but lately, i have been very concerned with my physical appearance. simply because i think that i will get a more favorable reaction from females. when i talk to a female, i always get conscience because i think that there are much better looking guys (some of which are my friends) and she won't have any interest in me. is this normal, and how can i change this?

Answer 1

Personal appearance is important to everyone or we would go around unwashed, unclothed,or just plain grubby. Its normal and someday someone will come along to make you feel like a great guy.

Answer 2

You sound a little vain, but more along the lines of, I think you may have a fear of being judged, thereby you are trying to fix yourself to the way others' will think of you. But I am no shrink, so, if you feel the need, you can see one. I think you may just want to be liked, and beauty is a very common thing that people know can cause acceptance. You sound very confused... good luck.

Answer 3

This is a normal reaction especially if u are trying to impress a girl .There is a certain boundary between low-self esteem and confidence. To much confidence and u come off looking like a ***. Too little confidence and u come out looking like a looser. So just be yourself cause that is the person she is gonna want to know. If she really liked u she wouldn't be checking out your friends..

Answer 4

it is very normal to take good care of yourself, appearances and health, but it's more important to take care of your personality. Avoid being arrogant or extremely cocky, be corteous, sincere and treat the girls nicely and you'll have to bat them off of you!

Answer 5

It's ok, it's just a phase. Try to re-direct your thoughts when you start thinking like this.

Answer 6

sh^t i dont know..... i'm not ugly.....maybe facial reconstruction surgery