ok well he asked me for a kiss and he knows i'm not like that,simply cus i'm 13 and a good student. i wouldn't give a hug eithor. i don't like him all that much though but he was always flirting with me and so he asked me in 5th period so i had gotten advice from my bf and she said i should.wat do i do?
2007-02-04 05:38:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're not ready for more than that... If he has a problem with it, find a boy who will respect you...
2007-02-04 05:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, you have 13 years ... @ 25 you'll be super extra acknowledged on relationship so wait for some time. If you love the guy that's ok. But one hug leads to a kiss and one kiss leads to a much more then that.
2007-02-04 13:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by LynX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way too young for a boyfriend. Give yourself some time to grow into the lovely, strong and confident women that you will eventually be. Don't give in, and for goodness sake BE PICKY!!!! A good guy will not make you feel uncomfortable.
2007-02-04 13:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by AJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him... you are 13 and obviously focused on the things that you should be at your age.
If you don't like him that much then you shouldn't be spending so much energy on this decision.
Don't listen to your friend! You should never let any boy pressure you into doing something that you are uncomfortable with!
2007-02-04 13:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not all that it is glamorized to be. I didnt lose my virginity until i became 17. I still wish to this day that i was a virgin. After you lose it, you lose soooo much pride and dignity about yourself. Your also gonna feel used. Trust me honey, if your boyfriend really cares about you then he will respect your wishes and wait. If he cant wait then you dont need him. I know you can find somebody to respect you and your wishes. I had to learn the hard way.
2007-02-04 13:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by mscluckey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is a wrong thing to give him a hug, but the thing is, it is totally up to you! If you are not ready for that then tell him to back off and if he really cares for you even a little bit then he will respect your wishes!
2007-02-04 13:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking? He is not your boyfriend! You said you don't like him! You are 13, you are not suposed to have boyfriends yet, don't listen your dumb friends, they are ignorants, they wont help you if you get pregnant.
Dump that loser and keep studing, and having fun with your lady friends.Think about boys when you get older and feel ready.
2007-02-04 14:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing being a good student. Dont go and get into anything foolish just to please a boy who might be a jerk anyway and after one thing. Tell him politely that you are not ready yet.
2007-02-04 13:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by rowell1608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is awesome I had my first kiss on friday Feburary second it is awesome. Don't let any one make you kis him I wanted to but and so did he and my friend Brenna squeezed our heads together and i wish that she wouldn't have done that it made me mad. she is always trying to get on my nerves. I'm only ten years old ya know my boyfriends name is alec catalano he is really hot!!
2007-02-04 13:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't owe this guy anything. Why are you with him if you don't like him anyway? Your bf is not a good friend if she tells you to go out with a guy you don't like all that much.
2007-02-04 13:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by Candie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm if u don't feel comfortable, then don't cuz if you don't feel attracted to him...then there would be no point is\n kissing him and don't let him mess up ur grade or nuttin and grl im 15 wit a boyfriend to and lemme tell u **** that like is just gona get ur man thinkin' and makin it seem like u wanna get it a step further...
2007-02-04 13:42:10 · answer #11 · answered by jbaby443 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋