I have been dating on and off this woman who tells me I am wonderful, attractive, someone she could date, but at the same time tells me she wants to date others. I get e-mailed, TXT's, VM's from her all the time but don't understand why she would want me to date others and her do the same. Any insight?
2007-02-04 05:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by ACTS 4:12 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just a flavor. She's not ready for a commitment right now. Don't expect her to commit to anything with you, just have fun with her if you want. Do not under any circumstances start having serious feelings for this woman until she approaches you about a commitment, which probably won't happen.
2007-02-04 05:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Heywood J Helpaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just wants to make sure to date a lot of guys so that when she decides to settle down with just one, it's the one she wants. You should be doing to same thing. We 'try on' different kinds of people so that we can find the qualities we like and want in a mate and which traits are deal breakers. If you both end up together after dating others, then I think the relationship has a better chance of making it.
2007-02-04 05:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should appreciate her honesty. She's "window shopping" and still hasn't made up her mind, looks as if she's not ready for a steady relationship. you seem to be young, and when we're young we tend to drown in a glass of water, Why don't you take things for what they are and just wait a little bit. I mean if she's worth waiting it shouldn't be difficult to hang around, and if you just end up as friends, at least you have a sincere friend.
2007-02-04 05:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its call playing the field she doesn't want anybody she wants everybody. Best to fine some one that not a player. Best of luck
2007-02-04 05:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her bout it
2007-02-04 05:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by PASCAL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is keeping her options open...
2007-02-04 05:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋