i've been single for a year and 3-4 months and it's really killed my self esteem. are there any specific things i can do to change that? and does that mean that there's something wrong with me? i've run out of things to blame it on so yeah and help/advice you could give would be great
2007-02-04 04:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright as for details, i'm fairly outgoing , i'm not what most people would consider normal, i make almost everyone laugh even if they're crying, as for my looks i'm 6 ft i weigh 170-175 pounds my face is generally clear my hair is brown and when it's straight it comes down to my bottom lip my style isn't like many guys i know i dress in generally dark clothes mostly black hoodies and for the most part i wear guys pants that are tighter and sometimes girls pants if looks are all that important i can show a pic but that's about it
2007-02-04 05:11:11 · update #1
i just rememberd that i didnt add that i'm 15 almost 16
2007-02-04 05:12:02 · update #2
maybe not worry so much about being single embrace and rejoice your singlehood. you will begin to shine when ppl of the opposite sex see what a awesome person you are!
2007-02-04 05:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to some females. Get into some social groups or even join a gym these places tend to turn up some nice ladies that are worth your time. Also be confident. Most of the time it's not you personally. Maybe you just haven't been trying or you've let your low self esteem over take your personality. Have you gotten out of a pretty serious relationship in this time frame? If so then start the healing process by getting yourself out of your shell. Good luck honey!
2007-02-04 05:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes these things take time. perhaps you are trying too hard. Just be yourslef and before you know it a partner will be just around the corner. And no there is nothing wrong with being yourslef. who else can you be better? Take care Heather
2007-02-04 05:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit blaming things and just go with the flow. how old are you? and how do you go around interacting with other people? do you try to get with every person you walk by? or are you too shy to talk to anyone? my advice depends on the detail you give, but you're kind of vague. if you really need advice, you can IM me : sprklngdimundz
2007-02-04 05:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're chance is coming, believe it or not, the moment we realize we are alone, someone comes along, I should know, I was broken up for 3 months, gave up on love, and now i've met the man that has changed my life. You just wait and see :)
2007-02-04 05:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't judge your self-worth based on being or not being in a relationship. It is not healthy.
There is nothing wrong with you, there are periods where you can go years between relationships, you just have to realize that.
2007-02-04 05:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by boog_forever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should nto feel bad about yourself because there is nothing wrong with you. you just have not found a girl you are really interested in that's all. in fact you seem like a nice guy. just ask a nice girl out and have fun! best of luck, =)
2007-02-04 05:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by CHI U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should quit basing your self esteem on whether or not you have a significant other, and start basing it on good qualities that mean something.
2007-02-04 05:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been single for 4 months now and I loving it.
2007-02-04 05:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dr.DRE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first u start thinking positive.
whenever u'll feel anxiety or fear or nervous go to religious place & sit there with closed eyes only till time when u'll feel good.
start morning walk , do it daily .do meditation daily in day & night.
2007-02-04 05:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋