I was dating this guy for 3 mo, then we broke up, I wanted more and he wasnt sure if it could have a future. I disapeared from his life and his msn. I started dating another guy to forget about him, but the truth is, I just can't. Right now I'm in tears and I feel like getting online on msn and tell him that I am not good, that I went out with another guy but I just cant do it, that I miss him like hell. Should I tell him? Is it going to change something ? I feel I'm shoking to to say it. Please advice, thanks!
2007-02-04 04:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by guriazinhainla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no dont jump in to it and say things u might later regret, write a list of all the reasons u want him back and of all the reasons u split up with him in the first place,if u decide u want to get back with him start by saing hi, a big gushing message will probable make him want to run a mile and remember whats meant to be will be and what might seem terrible now could work out great in the long run good luck
2007-02-04 05:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by ash.g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop, and listen to what he said. :-| If he said he wasn't sure that your relationship with him could have a future, he probably meant it.
But I do agree... if what you did bothers you, then go ahead and tell him. However, if your only purpose for telling him is an attempt to prove that other guys can like you so that he will "see the light" and have a relationship with you, then you shouldn't bother. He'll most likely see right through that.
Any self-respecting person can see when they're being "played", so I would be careful if that's your sole purpose.
Instead of trying to find love outside of yourself, take time to get to know, understand, love, and respect yourself first. :-) Take care and have a lovely day, hugs xoxo
2007-02-04 05:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my thought "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't come back, then it wasn't meant to be". Give him time and room to decide if you are the girl for him. Don't you want him to be happy, even if it's not with you? Date other guys, you may find the one for you and forget this other guy ever existed. You don't say your age and teens can have some very strong emotions, but remember you have a LOT of years and many guys to check out before you settle on just one.
2007-02-04 05:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see you say you broke up because he wasnt sure there would be a future. so why would anything be different now? Its either there or its not. You will get over it ..give it time.. maybe delete your msn to help you forget about him...good luck.
2007-02-04 05:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go on MSN and talk to him and find out where he is in his life and what he has been up to.. It would suck if you poured your heart out to find out he has a g/f and is very happy with her..You would feel like crap he would be laughing not a good ending..Besides if you cannot be together why not be friends?? At least you would not lose him totally right! Good Luck!
2007-02-04 05:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should drop the first guy. you broke up for a reason which means, that if you did get back together, you'd end up probably just breaking up in the end all over again. except you'll be crying a lot more. drop the guy you're dating now, if you dont actually like him. just using him to get over the first guy. and also, stop using msn to sort out probs like this. just pick up your phone! it means more.
2007-02-04 05:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Smacks!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its hard to tell that special someone whos always on your mind the real truth about how u feel. but u need to do it. even if he has a girlfriend, as u do a boyfriend, ur just telling him whats really going on. im going through a VERY similar situation. if he loves u, hell come back to u someday, so never give up hope
2007-02-04 05:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by the gurl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that you are not good? You two broke up, so there is no shame in going out with someone else. You owe him no explanation. Face it, if he wanted to be with you, you would have heard from him. You should go on with your life and find someone who will appreciate your feelings.
2007-02-04 05:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong dear. Give it some more time. If this new guy isn't the one, try someone else. This man you can't forget? I bet he doesn't even remember your name anymore. Please don't humiliate yourself by chasing after him.
If he wants you he'll come back on his own. In the meantime, you go on with your life. If you fall in love with someone who does know you have a future, all the better.
I know it hurts, don't give in.
2007-02-04 05:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spill your guts, take a chance. Tell him how you feel. The world could end tomorrow, seize life by the horns!
2007-02-04 05:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋