I was out last night with work colleagues and a girl who I work with said she wanted to clear the air (I thought everything was ok). She said to me:
She wants us to get on - at work and outside
Told me that I should drop the 'attitude'
She wants to trust me and hopes that I don't back stab her e.g. talk about her behind her back
She wants us to get to know each other better
When we're alone we find it difficult to talk to each other and it goes silent ASAP.(happened today at work!)
Each time we talk, I find it more uncomfortable/difficult as I don't know what to say!She's asked if I'd go to her birthday bash in a few weeks - I don't know what to say???
Why did she feel the need to 'clear the air'???
Suggestions on how to deal with this???
p.s. she has a Boyfriend of 2 years.Colleagues say we have a love/hate WORK relationship and that we do flirt with each other-but it don't mean nothing!
Says she don't do 1 night stands - I don't believe she fancies me.........
2007-02-04 04:56:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG the same thing happened to me last weekend with my boss. Monday at work he tried to apologize (alcohol talking), and i was like forget it dont wanna talk about it ever again. Consider it forgotton.
I think you just need to tune it out and focus strictly on work. Thats the only way to do it!
2007-02-04 05:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by dunno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd walk away and never look back. Is she dealing with a full deck ?? She's giving orders ( " drop the attitrude", ), she has identity problems (" don't stab her in the back "), she talks nonsense( " clear the air"), and last, but not least, the two of you have nothing to talk about AND she already has a boyfriend. Like many people, you might discover that its not a good idea to hang out with work colleagues. Too many rumors , misunderstandings, and hard feelings over ride any good times had.
2007-02-04 05:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 10:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work and Relationships Uuaully Do Not Work Out!
Don.t Go There.
Even If you wound Up Marrying Who wants To Work with their Wife?
Going to Work is usually Your Only Excuse to get away from them! :p
2007-02-04 05:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is the one with the problem, i think she has or had a crush on you and 'clearing the air' was her way of getting it straight in her head. if her friendship means anything to you i'd forget all about her 'moment', and continue on as nothing has happened - it's a women thing.... don't worry about it.
2007-02-04 05:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by frost7216 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel,if you are not interested say it out to her,tell her to stop that bahaviour,you dont like it dont be afraid of her,what is she looking for since she has a boyfriend.
2007-02-04 05:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by peedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her her birthday do, it'll be packed and you don't have to interact with her only... Afterwards things might calm down at work, more relaxed.
2007-02-04 05:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes playin ya dude. Find another girl. so many out there.
2007-02-04 05:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋